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What do women really want?

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posted on Aug, 2 2006 @ 05:15 PM
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I mean seriously, we guys expect women to go crazy over flowers or candy or some cheap gift cards that you had to get at a gas station or something immediately before coming to see the woman you love. So I was wondering what do women really want for a gift on a special day or event that pleases them to the point that they may grab their man and take him to bed and make looooooove. Is it really diamonds that women love or that just being brainwashed about how women love diamonds on tv ads? Is it an Ipod? A new car? Plasma tv? New computer?




posted on Aug, 2 2006 @ 06:38 PM
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Women just want your attention.











and prolly diamonds too



posted on Aug, 2 2006 @ 06:54 PM
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....... And your money.



posted on Aug, 2 2006 @ 07:11 PM
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In my opinion i like gifts but i will only accept them if we are in love and he knows i will never ask for anything i didnt need.

I love the surpise of someone taking time to make a card. anyone can buy a card but making one is special. Diamonds.... well... i have no need for them yes they are lovely but when would i wear them... to the market... work.... shower??!?
But i do love flowers, white and red roses, very normal but i love them.

When someone recieves a gift from a partner they feel warm inside because they know this person has gone out to look for your present.

But i dont need present to make me happy, i need him to make me feel happy.

Oni x x



posted on Aug, 2 2006 @ 07:20 PM
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I have given my fiance girlfriend a lot of small things but I think most of all
she likes the fact that there is nothing in my life that I exclude her from not one thing
when I go golfng she goes when I go mountain biking she goes when I go out
to pick up women she goes just kidding but really we enjoy all aspects of life with eachother some would say that won't last but we have been that way for over 3 years now and still when one of us finds something new to try or do the other will at least make an attempt to go along at least once.

The above being said I have also given her a $6,000 engagement ring so she must
like that gift at least a little.


Cheers
GEO



posted on Aug, 3 2006 @ 06:57 AM
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It has not answer at all ,depend on time and situation.
Sometime they want and men don't know, sometime they don't want but men give them.
So it is quite stupidest thing.



posted on Aug, 9 2006 @ 01:13 PM
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i agree, attention is good. i think a night alone somewhere is awesome. especially when you live together and its the same old thing.ie. dinner at home, watching t.v.. so its nice to find the place or city she likes the best thats not too far away. ( unless you have money?) take a drive up there, dont let her know what is going on . then show up at a nice place to eat dinner and then stay in a hotel.( make it all a suprise, well.. as much as you can) cause a change in scenery can do a lot of good, and it makes her feel good that you went out of your way to know what she likes and that you took the time to plan it.

anyway, thats what i like

im out
-mindtrip02



posted on Aug, 11 2006 @ 05:37 PM
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Women want your soul.



posted on Aug, 12 2006 @ 07:19 AM
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What do women want?

EVERYTHING! ;-)

(Thanks Chris Rock)



posted on Aug, 12 2006 @ 09:42 PM
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What do women want?

Exactly the same that all humans desire, to be loved and appreciated.

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posted on Aug, 13 2006 @ 01:46 PM
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Well, I'll tell you exactly what women want. Just one thing...Me. Hahahaha. I'm just soo irrestable.



posted on Aug, 21 2006 @ 07:06 AM
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What di women really want?

A soulmate.



posted on Aug, 21 2006 @ 01:10 PM
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I think it varies from woman to woman. Some women like surprises, some don't. Some love diamonds, me, I could care less, I'd probably just lose the damn things.

I like the idea of taking her out to dinner at a restaurant she likes and spending the night at a hotel as a surprise. Flowers are almost always good, most everyone likes flowers and they say I cared to go out of my way to get you something pretty. When he gives me something for my garden, such as a rose bush, that's nice.

Probably the thing I like best, is when my husband does something nice to surprise me, it shows he is thinking about what I might need or like. For instance, sometimes he will make me breakfast in bed. Other times he will wash all the dishes. Oh, and he still opens the car door for me and holds it, that's very nice!



posted on Aug, 21 2006 @ 01:14 PM
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Originally posted by Vegemite
Women just want your attention.
and prolly diamonds too


and your heart so they can chew it up and spit it out for you!



posted on Aug, 21 2006 @ 08:25 PM
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I stayed married to a man for 20 years... a controling, jerk, never boutght me a present, had no money till I built him a business, completely NOT good looking for the last many years, and was never a social kind of person like I am...

But loved him SO much. Only HE was my type. No other man, no matter what they looked like or had or how nice they were was any where near as good as 'my guy'.

Why? Because until many years ago I though he was faithful and loyal. All I want is a man who will want me. No other women. That's my only rule. (He never physicaly cheated. But in his mind, with the porn and pics and movies... well, it's the thought that counts.)

So for me - the most important thing, the only real thing, is that a man loves me enough that I will be enough for him. Me and me alone.



posted on Aug, 21 2006 @ 08:53 PM
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Originally posted by AngelaLadyS
I stayed married to a man for 20 years... a controling, jerk, never boutght me a present, had no money till I built him a business, completely NOT good looking for the last many years, and was never a social kind of person like I am...

But loved him SO much. Only HE was my type. No other man, no matter what they looked like or had or how nice they were was any where near as good as 'my guy'.

Why? Because until many years ago I though he was faithful and loyal. All I want is a man who will want me. No other women. That's my only rule. (He never physicaly cheated. But in his mind, with the porn and pics and movies... well, it's the thought that counts.)

So for me - the most important thing, the only real thing, is that a man loves me enough that I will be enough for him. Me and me alone.


An ex once said something similar to me

I looked at her and said "Oh and this coming from someone who's had HOW MANY partners? As compared to my five, six, seven?

Zark off!

I will pursue whatever wild encounter pleases me because I am still young and free and I haven't got the partying out of my system yet

And I know you've done it too so who are you to judge?"

And that pretty much settled it! :p



posted on Aug, 22 2006 @ 01:47 PM
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Originally posted by deltaboy
I mean seriously, we guys expect women to go crazy over flowers or candy or some cheap gift cards that you had to get at a gas station or something immediately before coming to see the woman you love. So I was wondering what do women really want for a gift on a special day or event that pleases them to the point that they may grab their man and take him to bed and make looooooove. Is it really diamonds that women love or that just being brainwashed about how women love diamonds on tv ads? Is it an Ipod? A new car? Plasma tv? New computer?




they want everything they can get.

just like a regular homo sapiens sapiens



posted on Aug, 22 2006 @ 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by millerman
An ex once said something similar to me

I looked at her and said "Oh and this coming from someone who's had HOW MANY partners? As compared to my five, six, seven?

Zark off!

I will pursue whatever wild encounter pleases me because I am still young and free and I haven't got the partying out of my system yet

And I know you've done it too so who are you to judge?"

And that pretty much settled it! :p


But there is a big difference between what you did and what I'm talking about. You were HONEST about it. You weren't lieing to her and trying to make her believe that you were being faithful and true. I am all for honesty. (As long as that honesty isn't comming from a man that thinks he's already been busted and he's trying to earn brownie points for 'telling the truth'.) lol



posted on Aug, 23 2006 @ 12:20 AM
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The question really is...

What do I want in a girl?

Me



posted on Aug, 23 2006 @ 04:48 PM
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Originally posted by AngelaLadyS

Originally posted by millerman
An ex once said something similar to me

I looked at her and said "Oh and this coming from someone who's had HOW MANY partners? As compared to my five, six, seven?

Zark off!

I will pursue whatever wild encounter pleases me because I am still young and free and I haven't got the partying out of my system yet

And I know you've done it too so who are you to judge?"

And that pretty much settled it! :p


But there is a big difference between what you did and what I'm talking about. You were HONEST about it. You weren't lieing to her and trying to make her believe that you were being faithful and true. I am all for honesty. (As long as that honesty isn't comming from a man that thinks he's already been busted and he's trying to earn brownie points for 'telling the truth'.) lol


Agreed, honesty is ALWAYS the best policy!

I HATE the drama and games and tension and secrecy that come with a lot of relationships, I would rather settle things with a simple honest conversation any day! "Look this is how it is, take it or leave it"



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