Calm Anomoly, your post should have been the main point of this entire thread. Thank you for saying it. Finally it's nice to hear from someone who
understands the perplexities of why these words are contentious to say the least.
In fact, this is my way of thanking you for introducing something thoughtful to this thread:
You have voted Calm Anomoly for the Way Above Top Secret award.
Mr. Romney should have known better. But, when people are indoctrinated with the perceptions of "white being good" and "black being bad", it
works both ways. He didn't have a conscience when using the word. He didn't think about his public persona and how others would perceive of
him.
But in the end, there were plenty of other words he could use to describe a "sticky situation". And that is the main point. People do not think
about the feelings of others when they speak. And when they serve a constiuency of mixed races, he should have been more recognizant of what he
says.
You don't have to be Mother Theresa, but you still have to have a little common sense when you speak.
P.S. I still believe that issues of race can be discussed. It just has to be done by people who are willing to see change. They must fully want it
to be better. However, I see that less and less now since 9/11. And it makes me sad.
[edit on 9-8-2006 by ceci2006]