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Originally posted by JackofBlades
Before I finished college, I remember one lesson which involved a debate on the ethical concerns of abortion.
how is our legal/medical system set up to accomodate the men?
How would you guys feel if your partner told you that she was pregnant with your very first child, then immediately says she plans on aborting it?
Originally posted by GradyPhilpott
I don't rightly know. I found out after the fact, but I didn't feel as bad as the guy whom she told the child was his and who married her and paid for the abortion.
[edit on 2006/7/21 by GradyPhilpott]
On March 9, 2006 The National Center For Men will file suit in a United States district court in Michigan on behalf of a man's right to make reproductive choice, to decline fatherhood in the event of an unintended pregnancy. We will call our lawsuit Roe vs. Wade for Men.
Originally posted by JebusSaves
But alas, this issue can never be resolved because although i'm against Abortion, no one person has the right to tell another what they should do with their bodies, and at the same time, if you are able to have sex, then you should be prepared for the consequences, and if that means paying child support, so be it.
In future you might think twice about spreading your seed.
Originally posted by JebusSaves
But alas, the issue of control over abortion can never be resolved, as you cannot tell a woman what she has to do with her body, but a man should have equal say regarding his child.
At the same time, if as a man, you are feel you are able to have sex, then you should be prepared to deal with the consequences, and if that means paying child support, so be it.
In future you might think twice about spreading your seed.
[edit on 21/7/2006 by JebusSaves]
If the woman has complete control over her body, don't you think she can share some responsibility for birth control?
And why not turn over custody to the man, and the woman pay child support. I might like to take care of my own child, full time, since I am willing to deal with the consequences.
Originally posted by maria_stardust
Men, if you don't want to run the risk of an unplanned pregnancy, the answer is quite simple, don't have sex.
The sad truth is, if both partners do not want to run the risk of a pregnancy then proper precautions should be taken.
If a pregnancy occurs, and the guy decides he doesn't want to be a father, he doesn't have the right to forgo his responsibilities to the child. Nor, does he have the right to force the woman into having an abortion. On the other hand, if a woman chooses to have an abortion, the man does not have the right to force her to continue the pregnancy.
It is their right to use protection to prevent unwanted pregnancies to begin with. Men, if you don't want to run the risk of an unplanned pregnancy, the answer is quite simple, don't have sex.
if that means paying child support, so be it.
Men, if you don't want to run the risk of an unplanned pregnancy, the answer is quite simple, don't have sex.
Men have reproductive rights. It is their right to use protection to prevent unwanted pregnancies to begin with.
Originally posted by dawnstar
If you were to find out you had cancer tomorrow, just who would you like to have deciding just how it should be treated?