Originally posted by Clarky
I know these are probably just dreams but anyway...
All dreams have meaning of some kind, its never just a dream!
[my mate died about 5 year ago
I am very sorry for your loss, I hope it has gotten easier as time goes on!
now and ive always had the odd dream with him in like once a month or something but these last few weeks its been nearly every night.
Have you been stressed lately? Something big happening in your life that would cause a reoccuring dream? Usually reacurring dreams are because your
mind is working on trying to solve a major issue. howevere.....
Basically it always seems to involve drinking beer with him which is what we did a lot of when he was alive like.
Reliving the good times, if this is actually an ADC (after death contact) it sounds like he is trying to comfort you.
Im wondering whether to ask him something if I have another and manage to turn lucid but im not sure whether to or not or if I did im not
sure what I could ask him.
YES, you should ask him questions! Ask him why he is returning to you in your dreams, perhaps he is trying to console you or give you closure that
you never got. Ask why he is there and how he is doing. Form questions in your mind before you go to bed and state out loud what it is you want to
know from him, that way when you do go to sleep, even if you cannot ask the questions, because you said them outloud before you went to sleep, he will
know what you want to know. Also ask for some proof that he was there. Spirit contacts will always supply you with some sort of proof. They will show
you or give you some sort of advanced knowlage about something to let you know they were really there and to wipe out doubt. Sometimes though it will
take a while for what they tell you or show you to come into being. When my bets friend died, it took 5 years before I had a visit from her, in a
dream, where she showed me my next born son as proof of her being there.
You may very well be having an ADC, if so, you have a chance to get closure, and also a chance to get some very cool information about a lot of
things, take advantage of this chance to learn a little more about life and death from a first hand account. Keep a dream journal about your contact
with him, keep pen and paper next to your bed, after every dream, no matter how insignificate, write it down. Everyone should do this anyways, but you
have a chance here that many people do not get.
I wish you the best in your journey, and hope you learn a lot from this experience. It does sound like an ADC to me, take advantage of it while you
can and learn whatever it is he is willing to share with you. It sounds like you two were very connected, that does not end after death.