Originally quoted by Benevolent Heretic
I am not out to prove anyone a racist. You are mistaken. I am just sharing MY definition of racism. We are all entitled to our opinion. And yes, I fully cop to setting the bar very low when it comes to racism as well as other forms of discrimination from one human being to another. I have very little tolerance for intolerance.
Same here. But that also is a question of life-experience and semantics as well.
Your accusations are incorrect. But as I have acknowledged, I set the bar very low.
You do set the bar very low. That is the problem. Racism in all its permutations is more complex than just "setting the bar". You can't just call someone a racist and expect them to reel back and explain their feelings. But like you have your opinions, you have to respect the opinions about others without judgement. Do you truly do this?
I grew up in Ohio and heard many racial slurs, some even from my family, and I NEVER heard Tar Baby. It's ok that you refuse to give Snow the benefit of the doubt, but I do.
Fair enough. Give him the benefit of the doubt. I accept that. But will you accept that I give Ms. McKinney the benefit of the doubt?
What could I possibly teach anyone? I do not assume to teach anyone anything. The only place I hear these words these days is on this board. I don't use them. My friends and I don't sit around ragging on black or white people. Race is minimal in my life.
Everyone has the potential to teach others from their point of view about life. That is what "denying ignorance" is all about.
I don't sit around ragging on White people or any race as well. But that's not what the discussion of race and race-relations is. It is talking about these issues calmly and trying to learn from them. We've done that before. And I believe that we can do it again if the effort is made.
Race should be minimal in all of our lives. However, race affects some of us more than others during our daily lives. You can see that from the comments here on the board.
Who cares? I'm not going to explore ignorance. I'm not going to feed racism. I have no interest in drawing the line deeper in the sand. The thought is ludicrous to me!
I'm sure it is ludicrous to you. But education about these things help others understand why these words are used in the first place. Further knowledge decreases the impact these words have on other people. And also, by knowing how they are used, it might remind someone in the future to be more judicious about using them when referring to other people.
That is the reason why I brought up the notion of vision.
What indication do you have that I've 'given up'? My continued postings to you? What have I given up, exactly? Changing your mind? I gave up on that a long time ago. Think whatever you want. I have no need for you to see things my way.
You said that you wanted to pull away from discussions of race. That is giving up. And that has nothing to do with you and me. In the scheme of things, I know I can't change your mind as well. But, it is a question of tolerance. How much are you willing to tolerate of others' opinions even though they might disturb your world view? It's not just having a lack of tolerance for intolerance.
Opinions are great. People should own their opinions. But the greatness of that is that we teach others something about them even in the conversations we hold. And some people are willing to do more work on this end than others.
I think I do understand others. I just disagree. If you want me to agree with your judgments of Snow and McKinney, I'm sorry. I don't. But you're certainly free to have your judgments as I am to have mine.
Fair enough. I think I understand others as well. But are you willing to give me the benefit of the doubt? I am willing to do the same for you.
I am not attempting to get anyone to agree with me. Not even you. I accept your opinions. And I accept that you believe that I am able to have my judgements as well. I would like people to accept my opinions just as fairly as any other member on this topic. I ask that in the very least.
[edit on 3-7-2006 by ceci2006]


