Originally posted by MagicaRose
Do you think the daughter next door is sending negative thoughts to me and my husband and to this house?
Negative energy from the daughter will help to fuel the fire, that's true. Especaily if the mother/father wer closer to her and she's real unhappy
and feeling bad about all this... if the parents want to help settle the duaghter. Is she still grieving, hurting, 'not over' the deaths? But I
think you have more of a problem with her parents than with her. Has her father also died? Because although their is a female (not the nieghbor)
that doesn't like that you've taken over the space, there is a male that is more ... um... outspoken isn't the word, but you know what I mean.
Originally posted by MagicaRoseSometimes I fear that something really bad is going to happen to us if we don't get out of this
Nothing in that house that we are talking about here will hurt you. Now you own fear of it can cause you some damage - as will any stress.
Originally posted by MagicaRoseI really would appreciate your advice and I'm sorry this is so long.
No problem at all.
I know this will sound silly to you, and you probably won't want anyone else to see you do these things - that's ok. lol Let me explain first.
Try to immagine if you had some stranger move into you house, get rid of all your stuff, redecorate (without your permission in a fashion you didn't
even like!). They ignord you and never even made you feel welcom in your own home. Not a great thing. And to make matters worse, your little girl
next door is very upset about all this - and you can't comfort her, she is still hurt and morns your death. (It's the pain and unresloved
guilties' and other issues of the daughter that hold one of three people here. The other two, one a partener/mate/spouce/something like that and the
other is waiting.
I'd suggest on a day when you will arrive home alone or wake up alone in the house... say good morning or good afternoon outloud. What ever it is
you drink while doing the computer (coffee, tea, whatever) - just as the old schoolers would ALWAYS do, as you prepare yourself your drink, tell them
they are welcome to join you. You can just sit and tell them these things, or if it's easier, go to your computer where you'll have copy/paisted
this, or open to this page on-line. If you go to the computer, ask them to follow, tell them there is something you want to share with them.
You can just read what I have written or paraphrase. They need to understand that the house is no longer fit for them to live in. That there is
something much much better waiting for them.
These folks need to know that someone is there wating for them. A mother or older sister possibly. They need to know that (lady next door/their
daughter) feels them near but doesn't understand and she can't let go and begin healing until they have moved on.
Tell them again that someone is there waiting for them, a mother or sister, maybe grandmother. Ask them to look around, that they will see the woman
waiting for them. Tell them their daughter/name will be just fine, and that she'll come home soon.
If you are sensative enough to feel the house already, you may feel a difference in the air - it's almost like it's easier to breath, like the air
is not so heavy (I know that sounds silly.) People feel things diffently - you may or may not feel any difference at all.
(you don't have to continue speaking out loud.)
Now go back to life as normal. No fear - that's a negative energy you don't want around. You may not see any more activity at all from there on
This will hopefuly be the end of it.
If you do see, hear or feel anything at all after this point, let me know - and try to notice if it's 'the same' feeling of energy or if it's
less, more, different in the 'emotion' it lets off. Generaly I will be able to cue in and see for myself - but I can't just decide when I want to
do something or what I want to do. These things are kind of automatic and sometimes it doesn't happen when I'd like it to.
It's not often they hang on, but if so, I'll work to take care of it from here. I'll see if I can get anything besides the jist of it from them at
a quiet moment.
Many people say that sage 'runs them off'. I've never been one to burn things or do other cerimonial things. But if you'd like to try - you
don't have to go buy some smudge stick etc. Just grab the sage from your cabinet, put a little in a small crumply piece of paper on a saucer and
light the paper. Put one in each room if it makes you feel better (It will get rid of your spiders anyway
I'll try to get a grasp on your house tonight and send that way, see if I can't lead them over for you.
Do you have steps that are going into or out of the living room?
[edit on 6-26-2006 by AngelaLadyS]