posted on Jun, 27 2006 @ 08:43 AM
I'll share one of the many, because it might help magicarose.
Our neighborhood was farmland before we moved in. Me and about 3 of our neighbors were the first to move in. I thought it was just us until one of
the other neighbors spoke up and asked "does anything weird happen at your house". There was this little kid who would go around all our houses
(the ones that had kids). We would hear him talking at night. We could be there sitting watching tv, and hear a child talking. Same with them. We
all would go around checking on the kids to make sure it wasnt them. Our husbands had even gone around the houses looking for kids outside. This
child would come around a lot. After a year or two I woke up in the middle of the night with a child beside my bed saying "mommy". Opened my eyes
and no one was there, but I could still sense him there. I could tell he was lost. SO, that night, I told him he could stay here until we found his
mom, and stayed up darn near all night praying and asking who ever would listen to help find this kids mom, because he was lost. After that night we
never heard him again.
The point I am trying to make to magicarose is that maybe you should try talking to her. Nicely. Your neighbor too for that matter. This is her mom
we are talking about, and if you mentioned any of this to her, it might have upset her. Sometimes it takes people a while to really feel the loss of
a loved one. Maybe she is pushed out of shape because her mom is in your house an not hers. The other thing, is that I dont think the mother in
your house is mad. I think she is trying to help....bring attention to something. Is your husband having a respitory problem, a problem similar to
what she had, or something totaly different? That would help narrow it down.
I just really dont feel like this lady is mad at you for being there....at all. I think she is nice, and trying to help you. She can hear your
thoughts. Talk to her. After talking to her, if all of a sudden a light goes on in your head - an idea or thought that pops into your mind (even and
especially after waking the next morning) pay attention to that.
For me personally, if that were happening to me, I would go get a new mattress. She is working too hard at getting you both out of it. My first
thought would be that there is something either in that mattress or in that room that is making your husband sick, or worseining his condition.