First and foremost, finding a man who can put up with me, is a big draw
The most attractive man to me is one who can make me laugh so hard I nearly piddle. (yes piddle). Sarcasm and sharp wit rule and if he's not more
than 30LBS overweight or 30 LBS underweight, no freaky-deaky-shag-carpet on his back (or face), and has awesome smile lines...I'm pretty much
I also have weird "quirks" - I'm a nose admirer - I don't know why - but I love a big nose - there may be a very, VERY valid reason for it (akin
to foot size perhaps)...but I won't go there today.
As for women - never been there. My very best friend is a lesbian and you know what after spending countless hours on the phone with her hearing about
her breakups, love interests, Gay-dar-gone-awry stories...I wouldn't want to have to deal with women on an emotional level for all the cash in the
I don't have any nitpicks about aesthetics really - body art or no body art - homely or Brad Pitt-ish - muscular or sort of not -
My last BF was actually, apparently, ugly according to everyone but me. But man he could make me laugh, he was great with my kid, and was very smart
and witty - oh and he had a british/Ozzy accent...
Ooohhh Scottish accents are nice too.... and camping, fishing, hiking....artistic and creative...smart...nice to his Mom, a subversive maybe, quirky,
I've been lucky in that I've met a lot of really great men, who may not have been total hunks, but made up for it in personality
I really want to put in a dancing nanner but I'll refrain.