posted on Jun, 17 2006 @ 05:30 AM
Not exactly the relationship forum....
Man, I am going to have to flashy thing myself after this is over.
Well, sounds like you already feel like it could be a bad idea. But it depends on the friends also, if they are great bros, they will take the blame
and leave you with plausible denial. Then again she may already be onto you, and have good electronic intelligence. That would be a double or thinking
though....she isn't a super spy is she?
I would have to say the gut feeling is a strong indicator, it is very very rarely wrong. Long distance from what I've seen and heard about, are about
as difficult to keep going as a military marriage. Only a tad easier though, by about 5 points give or take.
If she knows how you feel, that is all you can do. It takes two, and if one is more dedicated than the other, it will strain the relationship.
It would be better on your part to ask her if she wants to see other poeple or some thing. Find out what she wants, if she knows. Most young men and
ladies under their mid twenties are hardly ever sure of what they want. Really know, you know.
Relationships are always more solid if build upon a good foundation of friendship.
There must be a meaning to commiting to such, and it should be mutual.