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Explosive outbursts of uncontrollable rage may affect more people than previously thought, a new study suggests.
More than 7% of people in the US have experienced "intermittent explosive disorder" (IED) at some point in their lives, says Ronald Kessler of the Harvard Medical School in Boston, Massachusetts, US, who led the study.
This means they will respond to certain situations with inappropriate levels of anger, for example resulting in road rage or irrational, violent acts such as throwing a television out of a window during an argument with a spouse or parent.
“They often say that their anger goes from zero to 100. There is no in between,” explains Michael S. McCloskey of the University of Chicago, US, who treats people with IED
Originally posted by andy1033
i think anger is a good emotion to have. i know from experience that being to soft in this world is not a good thing, i would have been better if i was able to stand up for myself abit more.
Originally posted by firebat
Originally posted by andy1033
i think anger is a good emotion to have. i know from experience that being to soft in this world is not a good thing, i would have been better if i was able to stand up for myself abit more.
Surviving this world and "standing up for yourself" has nothing to do with anger. You don't need to get mad to defend yourself. That's what martial arts is all about. Anger makes you lose focus and you're not as able to deal with the situation as well, IMO.
Like I said, I think anger is a relatively primitive emotion and it's only an outward sign of inward loss of control.
Originally posted by firebat
Anger might be the initial trigger within one's mind... "hey, stop picking on me, I don't like it." It might be the emotional response to unwanted stimulation etc.
But after that, it's a matter of letting that anger continue to perpetuate, over that issue, until IT forces YOU to react in a violent or at least hostile way.... OR, it's a matter of overpowering that anger and realizing that an emotional, knee-jerk response is not the most effective way of dealing with a situation.
Anger is clubbing someone over the head after they just cut you off in traffic. "Standing up for yourself" is realizing that the better choice would be to just keep driving and avoid a potentially dangerous situation by following the driver and forcing him to pull over.
Anger is a purely emotional reaction without the mental control that most adults learn to exhibit, with the exception of certain extreme situations. It is emotional immaturity and even though almost all of us have issues with losing our cool, it should be the goal of everyone to learn how to control their emotions as opposed to being controlled by them.
Originally posted by andy1033
i do not agree with your definition of anger. people need anger(but not in high amounts), in every day situations. anger is not only someone hitting someone, anger can be shouting back at someone, or just answering back someone. you just sensationalise the word anger and we all assume that it means your definition.
[edit on 7-6-2006 by andy1033]
Originally posted by firebat
Originally posted by andy1033
i do not agree with your definition of anger. people need anger(but not in high amounts), in every day situations. anger is not only someone hitting someone, anger can be shouting back at someone, or just answering back someone. you just sensationalise the word anger and we all assume that it means your definition.
[edit on 7-6-2006 by andy1033]
I think you're slightly misunderstanding me. I'm not saying that hitting someone or yelling at someone, per se, is wrong. It may be the only thing to do.
But strictly speaking, anger is not hitting or yelling at someone. It is the mental condition that influences someone to act in a way that would cause them to hit some one, for example, just for the sake of satisfying that feeling that they've been wronged. It's not the the solution to a given problem, it's only the outward expression of an uncontrolled emotion. It accomplishes nothing.
Now... in certain situations, hitting someone or "answering back to someone" as you put it might be the logically thought-out solution to a given problem. It might be the only way to solve that problem. But this is different than anger because it's not a thoughtless, uncontrolled reaction... it's the solution to the problem that is arrived at by logical analysis of the situation at hand.
“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” --Gautama Siddharta