posted on Jun, 6 2006 @ 05:45 PM
Well, first time posting in the relationships section, but hey - I got a problem/opportunity and I'd like to figure it out.
Here's the situation. Recently I started a job - telephone tech support (if you live in Houston and will be calling Time Warner, there's a very tiny
chance that'll you'll talk to me!... after two weeks of training). There's a two-week training course for this job to learn the ins and outs of
what we'll be working with, and the male to female ratio in the class is something like 1 guy for every 3 and a half girls. In other words, business
However, all the girls seem to already have boyfriends... or at least all the ones I've gotten into that much conversation with (which has been
Anyways, one of those girls, a beautiful red-head with just a few freckles and pale skin, and two beautiful sections that I'll assume are outside
forum rules due to their sexually implicit nature (and so break the "family forum" friendliness), has been just awesome. Both of us have ADD and
ADHD, and so if one of us starts doing something random, the other immediately picks up on it. I was half-way across the room and started knocking my
head like "Night At the Roxbury", and when she saw me she immediately joined in!
We've also worked close together on a few of the in-training projects and neither of us mind being right close together (like "you're in my
personal zone" issues).
Both being ADD and such, talking with her is a breeze and a half because either I'll do something funny, or she will, and we'll just have a fun
time. We also joke about sex and she's always saying "oh yeah, I can't resist you" and stuff.
Finally, she's been jokingly hitting and pushing me a little bit (and I've done that to her too) and although she's been saying stuff like "I've
never done that, I don't hit people." - but we've even had a mock "I challenge you to mortal combat!" fight where she almost hit my... umm...
The problem; she has a boyfriend.
Now I know how people get when they have a boyfriend or girlfriend. They tend to be a bit more comfortable doing slightly more sexual things or saying
other sexual things, and not feel uncomfortable because they have their close other and so aren't worried about where such talk and stuff will lead
But still, we've been connecting really well and I want to ask her out. Should I? If so, since we both have ADD and stuff, what kind of fun activity
could we do together that'll give us time together to both have fun and talk (for some reason, mini/wacky-putt and pizza-hut just sprung to mind,
which sounds actually pretty good because mini-putt and go-kart's are like crack coc aine to someone with ADHD).