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Originally posted by alien
Heres a big surprise: We men, like women, would prefer we got judged by OUR individual actions...judge us without preconceptions. For example, almost every female I have been in a relationship with has cheated on me, trashed me etc etc...yet I refuse to take onboard a belief "Women are two-timing lying slappers"...perhaps extending us males the same courtesy would help bridge any gaps.
Peace,
ALIEN
Originally posted by hmmm
be quiet and get naked for television!. i did not read your post i'm just saying naked is good. for hot chicks that is.
Originally posted by heelstone
The feminine empowerment movement started this ball rolling. Had women remained sheltered away from public view, you would not have young women getting naked on television. Its that simple. What is going on now is exactly what women want. Nobody is forcing these girls to do these things.
If females had the same crazy sex drive that males have, there would be an equal amount of "Boys Gone Wild" commercials. However, this is not the case.
Women enjoy what they are doing now. The media may magnify the more negative aspects, but for the most part, females are doing this to themselves. Whether or not its considered lady like is up to personal interpretation.
[Edited on 20-10-2003 by heelstone]
Originally posted by jezebel
1). Men are the visual ones, that's why there are not more "boys gone wild" type videos. We are by nature, emotionally and sensually aroused.
I'm not so sure about females not being stimulated sexually by visuals. In the game of sex, a female has far more responsibility if the act goes through to fertilization. So I naturally think this carries over to how women think about sex. They have to be far more selective in what they do, unlike males. So the sex drives is more limited as a result. I know I would want sex less if it meant I could end up with a baby growing inside me. Not to mention the menstrual cycle would gross me out too and keep me less interested. Well, moreso if it actually was happening to me.
Originally posted by jezebel
1). Men are the visual ones, that's why there are not more "boys gone wild" type videos. We are by nature, emotionally and sensually aroused.
2). I wonder? Do you think that they really enjoy their actions, for those that choose to exploit themselves? Or does it seem like they are just trying to hard to proclaim that they are equal to men, sexually? At least in so far as they understand men's sexuality.
It sort of strikes me as falling into the "Me thinks thou dost protest to much" type category, more often then not.
Originally posted by alien
Originally posted by jezebel
1). Men are the visual ones, that's why there are not more "boys gone wild" type videos. We are by nature, emotionally and sensually aroused.
...guess you haven't seen how women act at 'All Male Reviews' then. Trust me, having worked Door Security at NightClubs, we guys hated working the nights of the All Male Reviews...the ladies just went nutso over the strippers and tended to have problems keeping their hands to themselves as they walked past us on their way out at the end of the night. Goosing hurts after about the umpteenth dozen time
Again, emotional and sensual arousal is not the sole domain of the female. I prefer my mind and spirit is stimulated over mere body...and again know more than a few guys who think the same.
Originally posted by jezebel
O.K. Look! I'm not trying to make any kind of statements about what men do or don't do. I only mention men because they are the other half of the sexual equation and thus, it cannot be avoided.
What I'm wondering is, how much harm the constant bombardment of women as classless skanks in the media, is going to have on the young people that are entering puberty? If I were in H.S. or Junior High again, with all of the doubts and insecurities that I had back then, and I was constantly exposed to beautiful women EVERYWHERE portraying themselves as sex objects rather than using their brains to make a living, I likely would have started to think that I should act the same.
Most of the men I have known, while they will act like pigs, if the girl acts like a whore, behave like perfect gentlemen if the girl acts like a lady.
This has just been an observation of mine at various night spots over the last few years.
Originally posted by heelstone
I have no doubt that women that exploit themselves love it. At least those that are well off... Women who do not have to worry as much about monetary survival in today's society can and do go hog wild with that freedom, as has been witnessed.
[Edited on 20-10-2003 by heelstone]
Originally posted by Fury
It's went out the window when we let you girls out of the kitchen and into the voting booth.
*runs*
Originally posted by jezebel
Originally posted by Fury
It's went out the window when we let you girls out of the kitchen and into the voting booth.
*runs*
Run fast, run far! I may be a lady but I can still kick your a$$!