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Originally posted by ceci2006
The main problem is that with the demonstrations of the First Lady and Dr. Rice, they are women that are part and parcel of the "patriarchal" notion of acquiesing. They had to sacrifice some parts of their personality in order to be accepted and allow others to be accepting of them.
The main problem with Teresa Heinz Kerry is the fact that she doesn't allow this to happen. She says what's on her mind. The press paints her as "putting her foot in her mouth".
She tells the press to "shove it", she is seen as Cruella De Ville.
Originally posted by ceci2006
How do we move forward as women if we are not given a proper venue in order to express ourselves in terms of emotion and intellect?
Dr. Rice and Laura Bush cannot be the answer for integrating within the so-called patriarchal system.
USA TODAY
Well, you know, I don't know Laura Bush. But she seems to be calm, and she has a sparkle in her eye, which is good. But I don't know that she's ever had a real job — I mean, since she's been grown up.
"I had forgotten that Mrs. Bush had worked as a school teacher and librarian, and there couldn't be a more important job than teaching our children. ... I appreciate and honor Mrs. Bush's service to the country as first lady and am sincerely sorry I had not remembered her important work in the past."
Originally posted by TristanBW9456
I dont have anything against feminists but you got to admit that these people do not help everyone by walking around with a chip on their shoulder
Originally posted by IAF101
I'm new to this thread, but I want to ask; why is that every time we see a group go off the edge we begin to label it nazi ? What we are talking here should be rightful called "militant feminists", adding the 'Nazi' is not in good taste. I'm not supporting or standing up for the Nazis but rather against a fad that casually labels anything extremist as Nazi.
Originally posted by PlausibleDeniability
And its always the big bad white male whos at fault.
...
sick of it.
Originally posted by darkelf
As a woman, I feel that if you can do the job, and can handle the environment, then you should apply. Stop trying to make men more sensitive. They have to put up with that crap at home. If you want to work with a bunch of women, get a clerical position and let men be men.
Originally posted by darkelf
As a woman in a predominantly male field, I had to put up with a lot of crap. I learned to give it as well. I never reported sexual harrasment. I handled it on my own.
I want equal pay for the same job. I want equal benefits. I do NOT want to be treated like a man. I am not a man, I am a woman. If I can do the same job as Joe, then I should get the same pay and benefits. If you have to lower the standards for females, that is not equality.
What I mean is, most all men work environments are peppered with profanity and horseplay. Most employers allow this behavior until a female joins their ranks. The next thing they know, the men are losing valuable work hours sitting in sexual harassment and gender conflict classes.
Stop trying to make men more sensitive. They have to put up with that crap at home. If you want to work with a bunch of women, get a clerical position and let men be men.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
A man who tells the press to 'stuff it' (Antonin Scalia) is just a man expressing himself
FYI, the quote Kerry made about Laura Bush is:
She didn't say Bush had never had a job in her life. It wasn't an attack. She simply said she didn't know.And, she apologized for forgetting about Bush's job.
"I had forgotten that Mrs. Bush had worked as a school teacher and librarian, and there couldn't be a more important job than teaching our children. ... I appreciate and honor Mrs. Bush's service to the country as first lady and am sincerely sorry I had not remembered her important work in the past."
But the true feminist movement's goal is for women to rise to their rightful place in society. That's all. To be equal.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Originally posted by darkelf
What I mean is, most all men work environments are peppered with profanity and horseplay. Most employers allow this behavior until a female joins their ranks. The next thing they know, the men are losing valuable work hours sitting in sexual harassment and gender conflict classes.
Are you blaming women for this? Or the employer? I'm not sure I understand the point you're making.
Men can be men all they want, but I personally don't think ANYONE should have to put up with harrassment in the workplace. I don't think people should harrass the skinny little guy for being skinny and little or the red-headed guy or the gay guy or the woman for being a woman.
Now it's one thing for people to tell dirty jokes or swear or be uncouth, it's quite another for a guy to grab a woman's ass or breast or make sexual comments directed at her. And if you don't have a problem with that, that's cool, but if someone does. then they should have a recourse. Those are harassment and no one should have to put up with that crap. Women like you and me might very well put them in their place, but if a women didnt' have what it takes personality-wise to do that, OR she chose not to, then I think she should have a recourse.
I don't think a woman should be disallowed in a job because she can't handle verbal abuse. The boys can get together and be animals on their own time. At work, there should be a certain level of professionalism and maturity unless everyone in the group agrees to a level of horseplay.
You have a lot of good points that I agree with, but the last comment about working with women and a clerical job just kind of blew me away.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
godservant, Did you read the thread? It's my opinion that that your obvious 'take' of feminism is exactly the myth that we're trying to dispel. The idea that feminism is a 'fight' between men and women is absurd. There is no 'game'. This isn't about hating men. This is not a war. If you think of feminism that way (which you obviously do from your post), it's no wonder you have hatred and anger around feminism.
Originally posted by godservant
Yes, I have read it. I can understand your stance on this since you are a woman - and maybe the same thing can be said about me since I am a man.
However, I feel that these 'groups', weather it is for women, blacks or anyone else, is just feeding the fire of hate. It puts groups of people against groups of other people.
Even if feminists get to a point where they have eveything they want, the battle will still continue from one side or the other - or both.
Is that what we really want - battle?
This thread shows exactly that - more battles, wars and hatred.
There can never be unison with fighting/division.
Originally posted by godservant
However, I feel that these 'groups', weather it is for women, blacks or anyone else, is just feeding the fire of hate. It puts groups of people against groups of other people.
Is that what we really want - battle?
This thread shows exactly that - more battles, wars and hatred.
This time (only the second I can remember), I disagree with you.
Originally posted by godservant
We can't be equal at the same time, because humans don't naturally want to be submissive and one side will ALWAYS feel their on the short end.
Originally posted by Benevolent Heretic
Just FYI, I can honestly say that in my domestic relationship, we are equal. We are different, but we are equal in value and contribution to the relationship. Now, why can't that extend out to all people?