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Originally posted by Rasputin13
I think you were right to end it. It's not fair for her to try and mold you into the man she wants you to be. She should accept who you are and love you for it.
If what you're telling me is the complete truth and you're not just giving your biased side of the story, then I agree with what you did.
Her flirting with other guys was the icing on the cake for me. You should have dumped her and dumped her hard just for that.
Let her go out there and see if she can find this perfect man that she's been trying to change you into. When she eventually realizes that this person doesn't exist, which I think will be the case, she'll probably come crawling back to you. Just make sure you don't take her back right away. If she comes crawling back to you then you're the one dealing from a position of strength. You'll have the ability to set the terms and conditions for getting back together.
Hope my advice helped! Good luck man! And don't let her win! Hold your ground!!!!
Originally posted by dr_strangecraft
I'd decide to get out and meat a lot of women.
I'd tell myself that maybe the 400th woman I meat will be perfect for me.