posted on Dec, 11 2006 @ 02:57 PM
Well as far as opinions go, ifigure ill just add mine here. As far as the new friend goes when the grass is looking greener on the other side of the
fence maybe its time to go out and do the yard work. the easiest thing in the world is turn your back on your situation. the real issue here is the
matter of you being pushed or shoved because it could have been just a stupid immature action or could be the start of a progressing pattern and
unfortunately it is up to you to decide which it is after a year and ahalf you should be able tell that one on your own. his hygenine issues could
easily stem from his own unhappiness, it may be something your doing differently or the way you are making him feel, it could be environmental, or it
could simply be hes just a lazy slob who put on a really good act, the good news two of the three are resolveable.
Seeing as your actually in a relationship even if you do decide to pursue a relationship with this other guy, it would do you good to wait a while to
do so. more than likely you will not have given yourself proper time to heal from the previous relationship and not have evaluted what went wrong
there, all to often people do this you should never make an emotional decision without weighing the possible consequences of those decisions because
your emotions are not a stable platform from which to makethem they are fluid and subject to change at a whim. just my thoughts.