Originally posted by dawnstar
okay, fair enough.....but I think we can both agree that living breifly on this planet in constant pain is very, very far away from what the potential
of many of those handicapped individuals that many claim this law would seek to eliminate from the earth....most of these handicapped individuals are
capable of experiencing joy, love, hope ect, as well as expressing it. and they do contribute something to society, even if it's a hug giving to
their caretakers after a hard day!!
I understand what you are saying, but consider my post about EB, even children doomed to a life of pain, doomed to die an early death, can live up to
their potential and have a quality of life they cherish, and be inspiring to mankind. Those otherwise physically handicapped without physical pain,
who can give hugs to contribute doesn't men those in pain cannot contribute!
So if both can contribute to society, and know love and joy and sadness and pain-physical and emotional distress...why is it a matter of being humane
to kill one and equally humane to let the other one live? Because it is up to us to decide what is acceptable to live with...and what is acceptable to
kill because of?
It was once not acceptable to kill babies, now that line is blurred, it is reasonable to expect the more shades of grey to progress infant euathanasia
to be abused in one way or another. It is just a logical reality to me.
Originally posted by dawnstar
and, I am not implying that my veiws should be considered in making any decisions, unless of course, they are connected to my life. ahhh, yes, the
right to life ventures into many avenues.....including my right to leave when I deem it to be the right time. doesn't it.
Well I am considering your views as pertinent to the topic at hand as you are basically agreeing that we can be determine a baby's right to live- or
our right to kill it -deciding their fate depending on their projected quality of life.
Originally posted by dawnstar
but, if terri taught me anything it is that there is a feeling among some that not only shouldn't we be helping death along.....something that I am
not sure I don't agree with you about, but also, well, we should be doing all in our power to prevent it from arriving.
Well, I do not know if I agree with that. I do believe we should do what is necessary in many cases, but other times I do not see the necessity of
medical invervention in all things. Ah-ha...see, I'm not inhumane people-fact is, I do care about suffering and quality of life and future
potential.
Originally posted by dawnstar
so, giving the all encompassing power that the right to lifers seems to want, I need to ask you, just who's to decide just when is the right time
to allow death to come? to me, the answer would be a mutual agreement with between doctors, who are the best to evaluate the condition and prognosis
of each case, and the person, if capable or the family if they aren't....who are the most likely to act with the best interest of the patient.
Well, I believe in choice and I believe in life. I am "pro-choice for life."

but I don't know what "all those pro-lifers want" But I will
say, in MHO who is to decide when life or death comes is God, the universe, nature. That is not to say I will not do what is necessary to save my
child's life if possible, nor does it mean I would not let my grandmother slip blissfully into eternal rest rather than keep her incapacatated body
alive on machines. So indeed if it was within my power, and my responsibility to have to make choices for another I would do what was reasonable to
me, with the exception I think of deliberate torture on one hand or euthanaisia on the other.
Originally posted by dawnstar
and some might subscribe to something different.
Ah yes, I do not speak for all religions or religious people, but I did say I would offer you my personal religious POV since you brought up taking
religious views into consideration
Originally posted by dawnstar
personally, I see it differently. to me, we pump enough crap into our air, our waters, and our food that well, more than likely some of the problems
are a result of man's actions. and well, I also don't believe that God goes nuts going out of his way to protect us from our actions....it just
doesn't serve as a good learning experience, does it? so, in order for us to learn that we shouldn't pollute the creation God gave us to live in,
it seems to me, that the effects would have to be rather random, you might or might not be affected, and not preordained at birth...
I did not say these babies are pre-ordained for specific diseases at birth....though who knows if some are not? I stated however, that some subscribe
to the idea we were presented in a pre-existance of our lives on Earth, with various possibilities that we indeed may or may not have been personally
pre-ordained for, however may eno#er regardless, including: diseases, lives of pain, and/or physical struggles, deformatities etc.
We may have been told what we may specifically encounter as far as disabling disease or life of pain without knowing, or being preordained for the
specific cause or disease etc. before coming here. So indeed, it could be from a mother's agency to be promiscousity leading to STD's that harm
the fetus, or it could be to environmental factors, or due to genetics, etc...but it doesn't mean that the creator of life didn't have forknowledge
of such to present it to us-as a group or individuals- what specifics we may go through, be they trials of poverty, disfiguration, handicaps, physical
pain, mental anguish and illness etc.
Originally posted by dawnstar
one could also suscribe to the belief that creation is in perfect balance, so therefore, if one is suffering from starvation, then somewhere,
someplace, one must be enjoying a bountiful plenty to compensate. and well, if one is to spend an entire life in suffering, albeit a short live, then
it must stand to reason that somewhere, someone is experiencing a live of bliss to compensate...
our goal, as humans would be to bring a balance within our own lives, denying the overabundance while making sure that the deprived experience greater
joy. in this pretext, one could conceive that it is beneficial to some, for a baby to experience such a hopeless, painful life since then, they can
kind of serve as the balance to creation....
Well, I understand that thought process, though I would not personally like to subscribe to such as the sole reason to allow one's suffering being
to allow for another's joy. Instead, because I do believe in a balanced universe, and laws, I believe thus there must be sorrow to know joy, but
I've thought of it more personally, that the balance being within one's self to know sorrow and likewise appreciate joy.
Though I also believe in being subject to the consequences of breaking universal law, or subject to the agency of others, so I guess within that, I
can see, it is often through the oppression of other's joy that some take their own joy, and likewise, because of that suffering those who suffer are
promised to be avenged and know joy as well...but in this life? Ah...I do not know if it all balances out in this life except for within oursleves.
Originally posted by dawnstar
but like I said before, not much of what either of us is posting could be validate or invalidated or even proven to be more worthy of acceptance as
the other...
which leads us back to what the scientists, and the medical professional say....and the desires of those who would the most logical people to hold the
best intentions to the baby...
Well, of course neither of our philosophies or religious views can be validated as more worthy of acceptance, but likewise, just because it is within
the hands of the medical professionals, and within the knowledge of the scientists to determine likley outcomes of diseases, and solutions of
euthanasia, does not make their views the most worthy of acceptance either. We all have our specific biases of why it is wrong or right, but the fact
is, what I take issue with in this case, is what will euthanizing babies who are deemed terminal, or in pain, or who's lives value is being
determined ahead of time, by their supposed quality of life, or pigeonholed potential, as a prescedence lead to in the long run?
Originally posted by dawnstar
ahh yes, a very sad testament at just how uncompassionate this world could be....just one question. I've heard all the crap said about these
mothers. what about the dads, where were they? why did they leave such mentally unstable people alone with their children? where was society, that
they couldn't offer the assistance that might have at least put these children in a situation where there was a little more supervision of the care
their mentally ill parents were given them....was child care offered to these women? any services of the like?
Well, I bring these issues up not to speak of the mental illness of these ladies or cast blame on society or spouses for not intervening, but because
they have something in commmon with both those that believe in euthanizing and in comparison to the pro-life type Christians you speculte fear death,
as these do not fear death, but did not treasure life either. They thought they were doing a good thing...ending the suffering they supposed their
children would know in life, to send them to a blissful paradise with God.
Now, isn't that what parents who euthanize do we can speculate? The difference of course being obvious that the babies were terminally ill with
physical diseases, I do understand that point let me assure everyone, but my point is when you have people who do not value imperffect life, and who
do not fear death, then from both sides, medical and religious, acceptable and irrational, we can conclude, available euthanasia would eventually be
abused as it becomes personally subjective as to what "qulaity of life" is, and what a persona's "potential" is etc.
Originally posted by dawnstar
but, well, what chances do you think that these women could have gotten a commitee of doctors to go along with their idea? which is what the
euthanasia is requiring happen.
That is what is required...for now...and I can assure you there is always doctors willing to bend to the will
of parents, especially the docotros that do not value life, or as we see, her have the frame of mind that quality is better than quantity when it
comes to life.
Originally posted by dawnstar
the doctors can't do anything without the parents consent, the parents can't do anything (legally) without the doctors consent...science and
technology has to agree with compassion and love.
Agree, or dictate what is compasionate in the name of love?
I appreciate your points, thank you for the discussion.