posted on Feb, 20 2006 @ 11:37 AM
True and deep friendship- a connection with someone that you don't find everyday, or in casual every day relationships. A true safety in being
completely vulnerable with someone.
Everyone has vulnerabilities, even if you are unfeeling and seemingly objective and rational about everything-you are not perfect, nor unfeeling, nor
without any vulnerabilites. A relationship where you can be yourself and loved for it, and despite it, and which helps you understand yourself as
musch as others, is worth any effort, and all such effort yields such sweet fruit, it is therefor no longer real "work" as much as it is simply
maintence of a self preserving nature even.
Something that goes deeper than need or lonliness, a true connection and friendship. A willingness to do such maintenance in a relationship such as
considering anothers thoughts, views, opinions and being sensitive to their needs of intellectual stilmuation, sexual satisfaction, and emotional
vulnerability, and spiritual sensitivity yields a fruit of body, mind, and spirit you can not achieve in life alone.