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By Pierre Coda
A question often asked by women is how much private matters they should discuss with men and at what point. Some women are afraid that if they share too much/too soon they might expose themselves to abuse by the men. It is well known that when women have shared their innermost feelings and secrets to men, some men have taken undue advantage of this trust. The complaint that I have heard from men, though, is that if they do not clearly hear from women what they think and feel, they not only get frustrated but also confused. Many times they just leave the women simply because they do not know if their romantic effort is having the desired effect