Originally posted by orangetom1999
I have been musing on your post above to denial.
I tend to agree with the overall premise about the attraction levels ...except that I have been with women who feel they are attractive. I have found
most of them overated. Not all mind you but most. What I have also found with many of them is that they are not well integrated into many life skills
outside of their attractiveness. This is what makes so many high maintenance.
Ah yes, this would be the blonde bimbo sister-in-law I have....though she did get a part time bank job, that had to turn into a full time one and
support her and her son when she suddenly thought the greatest guy I've ever known for her wasn't quite "good enough" anymore...thought she could
do better...was being told so by her friends...the ones that also came and moved her out of his house on a whim...
she regretted it nearly instantly...but ah...the damage done she wasn't on her own for too long, she had another engagement ring soon and live-in
boyfriend...I moved her into that place...and out again myself. :shk:
She now knows the life in the fast food lane as you call it isn't as good as it seems... has a guy that is great for her now-a performer by
nature...he loves to be busy-he is nearly too busy for her...she wishes he'd spend more couch time with her sometimes...but he does it all...the
landscaping, the building and repairing of the broken down home, he did the interior decorating-painting and wallpaper etc...and does alot of the
housecleaning...cleans the bathroom for cryin out loud!
She's got it good in him...he's younger too...it's a small town so...it may last...he's not going anywhere...and I *THINK* she is finally
realizing, she is pretty as a barbie doll on the outside...but looks wont last forever-she had better keep this one...she is settling down for the
first time in her life...because she might not get this lucky next time out in the FF lane...
IT is sad to see so many of these women who have bought into the womens mantras and trying to get another round of life in the fast food
lane...before the biology runs out. Seems to me that the latest fad in increasing ones value in the marketplace outside of radical diets(nothing new
here) is surgery..plastic surgery. It is becoming so popular that even very young women are doing it...teens even.
Ah...if only lobotomies were as easy to get as plastic surgery...yes olde man I have noticed this trend, anyone would be blind not to. It is force fed
from every angle...a woman must be beautiful, perfect, her looks and sexual appeal is ALL she has going for her is the idea...even smart women buy
into it because they believe the other smart women are going to outdo them by becoming platically perfected, thus to "compete for love" they must
compete on the level of physical beauty
But don't think men aren't targeted as well...no...especially men born between 1948-1965 right now. They are doing botox injections and lip[osuction
etc...yeah it's all about the physical appearance with the counterfeit types
Counterfeits...I'm so sick of this fast food lane counterfeit society olde man! ARGH!
You know, don't get me wrong, I can appreciate looking at someone of the opposite sex who is physically attractive...no doubt-I'm highly
visual...but what truly turns me on is someone who gets to me on another level...any or all of the following...intellectual, spiritual, psychological,
emotional...someone that "gets me" or can "get to" me on those levels...ah...that is most attractive...that attracts me on many levels but
ultimately plays out sexually as well...
truly the brain is the sexual organ, no?
So why can't people realize that? I don't get it...honestly I truly don't...
Once again ...it is all external improvement ..the inside is still as dull as it ever was.
yeah once a bimbo always a bimbo...plastic surgery doesn't change that...
you know people can TRY to change...try until they are blue in the freakin face...but you CANNOT change who you are at the CORE...who you were born
as, to be, and how you developed...you can change behaviour...you can change looks
TRY to change their appearance...clothes, makeup, the gym, plastic surgery
TRY to change their behavior (this is often a good thing)
TRY TRY TRY
but why don't they learn to acceot the truth of things...why can't they TRY that.
Sorry, going to go off on a tangient and dinner has been delievered...one of those nights...
I'll get back to you olde man