Disclaimer: I know not all men are wimps, and "nice guys" but most are "performers" in society, and I further add, that I personally *KNOW* not
ALL women are users, however meny are unaware of the part they play in perpetuating the problem that ultimately affects them in the long run!
That being stated:
There needs to be a new male uprising!
I am serious though! In a nutshell: men need to take back their manhood instead of finding new and improved ways to market it to women!
This is what is wrong in the world, as my buddy Orangetom will point out quite often, men have become expendable 'performers' in our
society-especially in America, or perhaps thats just my only frame of reference.
Men buy into what image they need to become and portrray and what standards they have to live up to to be "successful" in life and with women, and
they pay for it in so many ways...
Women know men are easily used, expected to perform, and conveniently replaced-and why? Because men handed over their manhood and perpetuated the
problem by thus allowing themselves to become so expendable under the "nice guy" conspiracy
Nice guys really listen to women, nice guys think of her first, nice guys will do anything to prove their love and worthiness, nice guys will compete
for her attention, affection, and body. Nice guys will work long hours and two jobs to drive the right car, wear the right clothes, and buy her
anything her heart desires, nice guys try to "win" her affections-constantly performing so as not to disappoint and to win approval and to feel like
a man and be seen as a man and a nice guy.
It began with a push and a shove from society, movies catering to the emotional needs of women, made up a stereotypical nice guys that every woman
fell for it...he has to be good-looking but just a little flawed...his weakness?...loving her so deeply he'd do anything for her, right? He has to
have a good job and car and clothes and sense...and be sensitive... and her best friend and make her laugh and feel good about herself.
*all the women sigh* *all the women swoon*
Then it's further perpetuated with women who are not happy with all that, and think the moment a man is not one or anything of the traits desired,
that instead of realizing she may not be the ideal woman either...that it's just time for him to CHANGE, evolve into what she expects... or she will
find someone else to perform for her...someone who will treat her right, and offer her the lifestyle she wants, DESERVES, but that she doesn't have
to help achieve half of the time....some who is everything she wants and needs...or can be CHANGED and TRAINED to be that.
So men act in ways (perform) that will attract women ...or to continue to keep a woman who "expects" a certain *quality of life* happy
These "nice guys" are just the worst species and they make it difficult for the gender by feeding this failed fantasy and keeping women in this
belief that they are entitled, by their gender and the POP to behave abhorrently while not even realizing it! Half of the time it's how they've been
educated/raised in their home, and social environment and influence of media etc.
Nice guys...nice guys aren't even guys-they're drones! Work on little drones! Pay through your blood sweat and tears for a woman-she DESERVES it
afterall... because she's a woman!
I'm NOT saying do not respect women, but how about do not immediately mindlessly respect them personally...why don't THEY have to earn respect, but
Yes, be respectful in your actions to the gender in general, not a chauvinistic pig, but do not respect a woman blindly without knowing what kind of a
user she is.... or isn't...benefit of the doubt is fine, and encouraged thinking mind you! I'm not saying every woman is a heartless moneygrubbing
using wench...but some innocently-by default- are simply users of the performers and don't recognize anything wrong with this system.
...men have to perform and prove themselves and sell themselves and show their worth...women just have to *be* there for the taking...
for a price...and boy they do take...fix their flat tire for a smile, mow their lawn for a giggle, build them a back deck and they'll prance around
in their bikini while you work...
and thats just the shallow ones...there are good deep thinking and self respecting women out there equally perpetuating this flawed emasculating view
of what men in society should be/do today
and why do relationships fail left and right? Why do these women have ample opportunity to be disappointed in men? Because men set themselves up to
disappoint. Sell themselves out.
Men don't have to be doormats...but they find a beautiful woman...and she's, hot, funny, smart, educated...etc...and then they will do *anything*
for her-especially if she goes down
and especially if they don't usually get it much! ...ah...this is *love*
Even otherwise smart, good looking self respecting guys will fall prey to the performance driven role of man today
...and what happens? He treats her like a princess, and effectively hands her his balls....and then what happens? I'll tell you...suddenly when all
is said and done, she has this empty void within her...she has everything she wants, right? Still something is missing...
ah....something is inevitably always missing...
The romance is gone...why? because there is a lack of balance-either the man is gone all the time working his arse off to give her a standard of
living she *deserves*, or he resents her for how he's changed, or never lived, or he just isn't seen as a "man" by her when he is
home/around...and why? Because performers are not men, they are drones and eventually this plays out in the fact a woman will ultimately feel a void
when all she has is a performing drone instead of a real man.
But society forgets how to teach men to be real men, and doesn't portray real men in movies, so women don't know how to recognize them, they send
out their cues of what one most important thing they have to offer a man...just being a woman and all that represents for a man...and he picks up on
the cue as he's been conditioned to do, and then performs according to how it's been dictated he *should* ...and then ultimately they are
selfdeating behaviours by both of them and leave her ultimately wanting something else/someone else....
...and leave him wondering "what did I do wrong?"
So bitter...and yet so often he then tries harder to perform the next time...becoming a cycle
WAKE UP MEN-AND BE MEN!
WOMEN WILL THANK YOU FOR IT AS THERE IS A SHORTAGE!
THE WORLD WILL REJOICE!
So are you a man or a drone?
Do you know the difference?
Women, do you want a man or a drone?
Do YOU know the difference?
What do YOU bring to the table worthy of a REAL man?
think about it.