reply to post by GUICE2
I like to think of it more as.. what DIDN'T I do in my past lives..
You're asking a lot of questions that it seems like you should be the one to answer. You are doubting your abilities. You can't be the master of
your own destiny where doubt is present. It's hard when we look to the past and see a pattern of failure, but if we keep doubting ourselves then
we're bound to repeat the mistake. Pay attention to these words because I paid somebody 60 dollars to hear them! - Live in the now, do not live in
the past. Acknowledge that things happened, acknowledge the reason, analyse and learn from the mistakes in order that you don't repeat them. You may
not be aware of this, but most of the time this doubt, this fear, this living in the past is completely sub-concious. Its like we're given a task to
do, and instantly we get an uncomfortable feeling, a feeling that we're going to fail, without any reason, we haven't even anaylsed the task yet and
already we're fearing failure.
It's a lack of self-confidence on my part where this doubt comes from. Take it from..and I hear this from multiple people, get some
exercise...daily.. and i'm not talking about work.. Lift weights, go running, something active that tires you out, do it for half an hour. 1. You'll
see yourself getting fit, this psychologically affects us, we feel accomplished, we feel like we're changing, leaving the old US behind, becomming
something we want to be, mastering our goals. As well it releases those feel good endorphines into the brain. Its like... you know how when your heart
really starts pumping and you can work and work forever and not feel tired and all of a sudden you don't mind the work, and the day goes faster?
Excercise makes us feel good.
I'm going to give you a line, part of this psychic reading I paid for. It's good advice :"At any rate ask yourself what this fear about not being
up to the challenge is really useful for? Only for creating a lack of self-confidence and an under-estimation of one's true worth"
Doubt will bury you man. It is absolutely good for nothing so all you can do is find a way to be rid of it, you have to start really immersing
yourself in who you are, love yourself. You can't love others if you don't even love yourself. Tell yourself "I am (name) and I master of my own
reality man, I can whatever the F I want, because I can, because I'm part of the universe, I can do anything, there is no task too great for me, I am
master of my emotions and my destiny, nothing controls me, nothing manipulates me, nothing hinders me but ME.
It may be tough, you may have to sit down and meditate on it for a couple hours every day for a month if you have to. But more times then not our
problems seem even tougher because we don't know how to face them if they arise. Sit down, remove yourself from distraction, and figure it out.
Breathe, clean the chakras, relax, remove yourself from material worries and probe your mind for the solution. I think you'll find it's there, and
if you doubt that, then you're just hindering your abilities even more. Tell yourself you have the knowledge of the universe locked in your mind,
that any limitations you experience are put their entirely by yourself conciously or sub-conciously.
As well when you have the knowledge, and the confidence, it helps to control those emotions. Thinking about something negative that hurts you isn't
going to help, it's just going to make things worse unless you learn from it and put an end to it. You can shut emotions off too, and bury them, but
they'll always be there, just acknowledge them, know the nature of them, and control them if you know "this isn't going to do me any good right
now" But don't try to pretend they don't exist because it will sooner or later explode on you, that happened to me.
Your past life doesn't matter man, not unless it has information that could help you NOW. It is and always will be a part of us but we have to tell
ourselves, the person who are now in the present moving forward, is the height of love and knowledge. Potential is unlimited either way.
Don't dwell on the past man, just understand it so you don't repeat the same mistakes, and give yourself some credit, you have unlimited potential,
thats gotta count for something right? The don't dwell on the past thing is the best advice I ever got from someone but you know what.. I could
have figured it out myself. I could figure out everything myself but sometimes I want to ask for help. And you know what? Once you get an answer
you're going to have to analyse it anyway, work it around your head and see what you make of it.. Either way your'e still going to have to think of
it so we can't just pin our problems on someone else with greater experience then us. After-all, who knows YOU, better then YOU?
All the answers are within man. ALL OF THEM. TO EVERYTHING, believe it or not. Sorry, BELIEVE IT, there is no not.