Putting A Handle On It
Originally posted by Kitsunegari
Ah Majic, it's so great that you have such a handle on your bipolar problem You're an inspiration to us all, truely.
Whether I actually have a handle on it or not is a matter of opinion.
I'm lucky in as much as I don't seem to flip out and get
really crazy -- unless I take
SSRIs. I
found out about those the hard way when I was being treated for depression. For me, anyway, they trigger the kind of full-blown
mania that could get me a cameo on the evening news.
It was my reaction to an SSRI-like drug (
Serzone), ironically enough, that led to my being diagnosed
bipolar -- by two psychiatrists and a psychologist who all unanimously agreed -- and still I
didn't believe it for several months.
Fortunately, even when I freaked out on SSRIs it was in a relatively safe manner -- if you consider driving for three days straight and getting stuck
off-road in the middle of nowhere “safe”.
Under the supervision of several professionals, I've tried every prescription drug available on and off-label for my condition, and nothing
worked.
So I finally decided to just learn to live with it, and well, I must say it's better than trying to medicate my personality away.
Of course, even a casual perusal of my posting history on ATS indicates a tendency to deviate wildly from what could be considered “normal”
thought.
But then, I'm not so sure that's actually a
bad thing.
The Art Of The Deal
Originally posted by Kitsunegari
I should have my uncle sit down with you, he doesn't deal nearly as well as you seem to. In one of his Manic periods, he decided to move to Florida,
then went through a Depression stage, and moved to Alabama, etc. So, yeah, he really hasn't dealt well at all.
I am known to do some rather rash things when manic, like buying things I really don't need and having brilliant ideas that later don't turn out to
be so brilliant -- or indulging in unorthodox spiritual adventures, like becoming a prophet, though I suspect that's not an unusual trait of
historical prophets, to be frank.
But I'm lucky, because I'm not a
Type I bipolar. I've known some people who are, and well,
that's out of my league. I've had a taste of what that's like (thanks to the SSRIs), but don't tend to fly quite that high in my natural manic
states.
I'm more like a
Bipolar II or maybe a
Cyclothymic, but am “NOS” (Not Otherwise Specified) because no one can really figure out
what my problem is.
On the other hand, I don't luck out so much on the
depression side. A “good”
depressive phase can take me out of action for weeks, and used to do just that quite a bit.
Bipolar depression is
nasty.
I still go through the same phases I used to, but since I learned to stop hating myself for being depressed and accept it as part of being me, it's
really not so bad.
I like to sleep (when I can), and when I'm depressed, I can really sleep like nobody's business (which reminds me. Hmm, could this be a
mixed state? Been sleeping a lot, but just look at me type! Oh well...).
If your uncle is Type I, the best I recommend is to make sure that he and his loved ones learn everything they can about it, and constantly refresh
that knowledge.
It is also crucial for people who know him to understand that it's not his choice when his moods will change. That can be extremely difficult,
because he's still “him”, except not quite...
Type I manic states are the kinds of states where intravenous injection of Depakote is a
favored treatment option, because full-blown mania is
a serious condition.
Thankfully, I don't tend to naturally develop that degree of manic intensity. Rather, I tend to experience adrenaline-fueled creative fugues that are
far more pleasant than anything any illegal drug can even come close to matching.
Mania is
fun!
And therein lies the rub.
Know Thy Other Self
Detecting and dealing with bipolar mood swings is not as easy as it sounds. When my moods change, I generally don't realize it for a few days, even
though I've tried to train myself to do so. I just sort of slip into mania or depression and don't notice.
It usually takes something significant to clue me in -- like realizing I've been awake for a couple of days and can't sleep (mania), working
obsessively on some project for sixteen hours and suddenly remembering I need to eat something (mania), feeling an overwhelming certainty that
there's no point to life whatsoever (depression), or going to sleep and waking up eighteen hours later (depression).
Stuff like that.
I can't overemphasize how hard it is for bipolars to recognize the mood swings, even though it would seem painfully obvious to anyone else. Not
knowing seems to be part of the condition, and by the time we figure it out, well...
For as much as I've studied the condition, my behavior and ways of dealing with it, I'm still learning -- and sometimes forgetting -- as I go.
It's an ongoing challenge, and there is no cure.
Ironically, if there was one, I seriously doubt I would want to take advantage of it.
I just gotta be me, and being me means being a wild bipolar maniac who needs to hibernate now and then.
Could be better, I suppose, but all in all, I consider it a good deal.
The Cleverest Of Thefts
Originally posted by Kitsunegari
Thanks for your inspiring and uplifting podcast, Majic
Hey, it's all
Mizar's fault.
He started it.