posted on Dec, 8 2005 @ 01:39 PM
Well, I am now completely over my annoying and vain ex girlfriend. But the great thing about it is I now have a greater motivation to go out and find
another girl. More so than ever.
Heck if I know where it came from, but I'm more calm and confident around the ladies now. In fact, ever since the breakup, I've had an "I don't
care what you think of me" attitude that seems to attract them.
There's this girl at work who I never thought I would be able to talk straight to. One day I just started talking to her with a cocky, funny
attitude, and she warmed up to me. She started telling things that she remembers me doing...months ago...things I don't rememer doing...so apparently
she has noticed that I do exist
Anyway, what I have to say is this...if your a guy who is too worried about what a girl will think about you, you clam up and talk weird around them,
and have no self confidence and esteem...just say $%^$ it, and just go for it. Just be cool...be a little cocky, a little funny, and don't act
depressed or desperate (like your forcing yourself to talk to them). Just don't care and have fun...make it a game.