Originally posted by geek101
Even if its not, God still doesnt give that right. There is yet another thing he must do first. Which is refuse to sleep in the same bed.
Honestly geel101; Would you REALLY be upset if your husband, whom you're mad at, slept apart from you? I think most wives would say "great; no
wifely dities tonight"!
Originally posted by geek101
If that doesnt work either, and the wife is still ill-treating him (remember, ILL-TREATING him, NOT disobeying him, or rebelling against him), then
God finally gives that right.
Elsewhere in the Quran, God tells us that men and women are protectors of one another.
So since they are protectors of each other, the wife, then, has equal authority to "beat" her husband (as a last resort) if he "Ill-treats"
her---right?!? The answer is no. BTW; please show the reference where it says they are protectors of each other.
Originally posted by geek101
Women are told that if she fears ill-treatment from her husband, she can seek divorce.
You're very fortunate to be living under constitutional law because you have rights, freedoms, and abilites, that a divorced woman lving under Sharia
does not.
Originally posted by geek101
So why would God on the one hand advise men to beat their wives and then tell the wives to divorce their husbands when they do so?
Because firstly, quill to paper, the Qur'an, the Bible, or any religious texts, are written by mortal men (or are dictated by an illiterate who
claims to have memorized them) who wish to control others. It is verses like 4:34, as well as the passages in the Hadith that women are often treated
so badly in the Islamic world. In other words: You are the "tiny minority" of Muslims that step out of line with mainstream Islam.
Originally posted by geek101
Who says i am not a muslim if i reject the hadith?
You?
The sunnis?
The Majority of Muslims worldwide.
Originally posted by geek101
I dont care....I AM a muslim and i dont need you or some guy in saudi arabia or some guy here in the uk, telling me i'm not, just because i dont
follow the hadith.
Fair enough
Just becareful expressing your opinions in mixed Islamic company.
Originally posted by geek101
People should look things up for themselves and not rely on what other people tell them.
If you are truly interested in islam, i urge you, to seek less orthodox means of studying it. Forget the scholars, the imams, the sunni and shia way.
Read the quran yourself, arm yourself with even a limited knowledge of arabic. And i promise you, it will take you about a week to discover that all
is not what it seems.
I assure you that I do research things for myself. I need to make my position very clear now: I have NO personal stake in Islam. If it weren't for
the attacks on my country on 9/11/2001, I would never be giving Islam a first glance. But I became curious as to how these Islamofascist do what they
do and are able to justify (in their minds) that they are working in Allah's favor. It turns out that most of what they do is suported by a
combination of the Qur'an, the Hadith, and in limited ways, Sharia as it is practiced in Islamic countries.
I understand your need to engage me on these issues. However, I believe your efforts would be much more fruitful if you instead engaged "extremists"
in their beliefs. It is they who need to be confronted by "moderate" Muslims such as yourself. As I said: I have no personal stake in Islam. You,
however, do and I believe it is YOUR responsibility to confront those whom you believe are "hijacking" your religion.
Geek101; I'm fairly comfortable that you, and many other Muslims like you, don't wish to kill me because I'm a "dis-believer". But I also believe
that you are in the minority in your general beliefs of Islam. I believe that MOST Muslims would rather live in a society that is completely dictated
by Islam.
You even say yourself:
Originally posted by geek101
I would love for the world to be run according to Gods law.
...indicating your desire for the world to be dictated by Islam. I find this highly ironic since you enjoy the freedoms and benefits provided under
CONSTITUTIONAL law. Once you throw religion into the mix you are now subjected by SOMEONE ELSE's ideas of religious mores because surely there are
others who don't view "God's Law" the same as you. Imagine living under Taliban rule? Or under Christian rule for that matter. So becareful what
you wish for. I'll take a secular society any day of the week.