Thomas Crowne wrote
As a Christian, I would really prefer you to accept Christ, but in regard to your difficulty with your own religion being trashed and perverted (Oh,
how I can relate), all I can say is to hold tight to how it should be, show your children the difference between the right and wrong way (so that they
will not be suckered by the perversions) and enlighten others along the way, as you can

well, i can accept Christ as a prophet of God, if thats any good.
I'm doing my best with my kids.....i am determined that they will not grow up without questioning things, and indeed, even now, they seem to have a
pretty good grasp on the differences between religion and tradition/culture.
Yorga wrote
If I went to church and only listened to what is being taught or preached and never checked for myself then my head would also be full of half truths
and outright lies.
See, thats the problem....i see myself as fortunate, to be a convert, although i am sure that even had i been born muslim, i STILL would have reached
this stage. But the truth is, is that for most muslims, what they learn from their parents is it....doesnt matter if their parents were right. I mean,
my ex, who is older than me, has actually reached the age of 40 without ever knowing what he says in his prayers, because he says them in arabic. And
this is how things are for alot of muslims.
Knowledge is a powerful weapon, the lack of knowledge is likewise a terrible disability
Agree completely. And when muslims say we are urged to seek knowledge, it is true.....but to claim that we DO that, is rubbish. You cant question. I
have had people on islamic forums, call me a kafir (unbeliever) for questioning the hadith collections. Even when you point out a saying that is so
obviously wrong.
Nygdan wrote
I would say that much of what is un-kuranic is taken from the Hadiths no? THe commentaries that go alongside the Quran
Thats absolutely correct. The funny thing is, is that the words "hadith" (saying, message) and "sunnah" (way, system) are synonomous with
muhammad. But in the Quran, the only time either of these words are used, is when it is referring to the Quran itself, or Gods system, or when it is
actually challenging muslims, asking them....what hadith will you believe in after this quran?
I mean, it says that about 3 times....and muslims (majority) do not even know the word hadith is in there, much less that God has asked that
question.
The hadith collections of Bukhari and the rest, were all written round about 250 years after muhammads death. Sunnis and Shias alike, will tell you
that there is a "science" to how these sayings were collected.
In truth, it was nothing more than chinese whispers on a larger scale.
And the FIRST thing a sunni muslim will say to you, when you suggest not following the hadith, is this:
Then how do we know how to pray?
The second thing will likely be.....we are told to follow muhammads example.
To the first, i would say to any muslims reading this....if God didnt tell us a set way to pray....maybe, just maybe.....thats because there isnt
one.
Hmmm?....think about it. Is religion really a set of rituals and stupid rules, or is it something much deeper than that?
To the second, i would reply that to follow muhammads example would be things like, being patient, being considerate, tolerant. NOT imitating his
life.
For a muslim to think that God meant for us to imitate the life of a 7th century Arab is ridiculous. And i dont mean to offend any sunnis or
shias....but, please, use your logic here.
I have to say that I am impressed that geek101 has said this. It shows what I suspect is something akin to the majority viewpoint of muslims, if not
all, then certainly ones living in western countries
Unfortunately, you would be wrong there. I agree that the majority of muslims are not extremists, and do not wish to harm anyone or to have Islamic
rule in non-islamic countries....and i would go as far to say that anyone who condones terrorist actions, has no actual right to be affiliated with
ANY religion.
However, no matter how liberal a muslim may appear, you would be hard pressed to find ones that think like me. I'm not saying i am
unique....lol.....there ARE groups and they do seem to be growing, that believe that we should follow the Quran only. That the hadith present nothing
to do with true islam.
But (i hate to keep using my ex as an example....lol...but he's a good one, and we do discuss all this, get on ok, etc).....ok, here's an
example....he doesnt pray 5 times a day, he doesnt have a beard, he's not really that strict.....but he will pick on the stupidest things.....like
insisting on eating with his right hand....a dislike of saying the word "pig".
You get the picture :-)
Muslims are fond of saying that islam is totally compatible with modernity. And it actually is. But to say that and then to follow the life of someone
who lived 1400 years ago....doesnt add up.
And no matter what muslims think, there HAS to be a reason why most people see muslim countries as backward, uncivilized places.
Its NOT all propaganda....stop blaming this on everyone else. When i read on here a while back, that the Isreali army were planning on using bullets
dipped in pigs blood to deter palestinians....i didnt know whether to laugh or cry.
To think that people believe this would bother them....lol.....and further, to know that it actually WOULD.....oh God.
I got news for you guys....there are no virgins in heaven waiting for you. God really wont care (i dont think) whether you have facial hair or whether
you eat with your left hand, satan doesnt laugh when you yawn and God understands english too.
aisha
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