Oh man sports...not even the professionals now but people trying to train up their kids to go pro from the get go.
My son is 7 and has played organized sports for 2 years now as I let him play whatever he WANTS to and drive him to play nothing. I support him in
everything but I refuse to "groom" him for a sport at this age!
He has played T-ball last year, and this year little league baseball. He played football this last year- FLAG football and dabbled in wrestling but
wrestled in no real matches. He took Tae Kwon Do for a summer and I may let him return there this summer, and he ran one cross country race "for
fun". He is picking up a soccer program this month for 2 months and may try basketball next year.
but here is what getrs me-I let him do these things, pay for them, take him, support him and want him to learn to be a team player, get exercise, have
fun, make friends, learn to listen to a coach etc...other of his peers have parents that think they must groom their young children now for high
school, college, and professional sports. It is crazy to me.
Parents fight to get their kids on certain teams with the winning coaches. I mean, we are talking about 7 year olds! I socialize with these people in
passing, but do not share their passions.
I had to coaches' wives at a birthday party for my son telling me it was not too late to have my son play baseball this year if I just went to talk
to so and so... See, we had gotten in a car accident the night of signups and went car shopping for a new van the following Sat when signups
continued, so I figured "no late registration " meant just that and figured he would just have to wait until next year and told them our son
wouldn't be playing... but apprently it is all in "who you know" and I happen to know the right people I guess.
So I go and talk to the guy they tell me to...he asked who sent me, I drop the names and voila-We're in....only one problem...all the good coaches
(the husbands of the wives who gave me the inside scoop)had been filled up and he couldn't squeeze us in so I would have to go with a lesser
coach...like I care? We are talking 7 year olds people!! I tell him thats fine and he seemed surprised...he said it should really be about fun,
friendship and learning skills, not winning and I agreed...he seemed surprised. WTH is it supposed to be about at 7 years freakin old?!?!?!? Geez
Anyway, I speak of this because as a parent of youngsters I am just scared for them in their sports endeavors. A friend of mine has a boy 9 months
older than my son and in the same grade but lives in a different state. They are signing up for football already there for this fall. The father of
this boy wants him to play for one organization because they play tackle ball for ages 8-10 or something and he wants his son playing tackle not some
pansy flag football...I couldn't believe it...thankfully the organization that plays tackle and has all the cool uniforms etc also costs like $200
plus selling raffle tickets or buying them to the tune of another $100 so the cheaper league of flag football became the choice this year...all I
could think was thank goodness your son wont have to sustain injuries or possibly die at 8 years old. You know?!?!?! We had a kid die on the field in
highschool! It happens more than people know.
SO does steroid use by teens-crazy!!!!!
Anyway, in it all I have athletes in my family-kids playing college sports etc and the pressure they have known. My neice confided she didn't even
know if she wanted to play basketball this past year...but she didn't want to let her parents down. She had enough trouble just dealing with college
life, schhol, grades, freedom, pressure and availablity of partying and didn't want to add to it practice and games and court politics of her team
mates etc...but she had been groomed for this...her "dream" handed to her by her parents...
Anyway, just had to vent about sports!!!

It all seems crazy to me and I wince when they talk of those not as athletically inclined as their
children, because my son-the first grader in the 6th grade science club- is not as athletically naturally talented nor coached by his father ever
waking moment, however he is sociable, well liked and likes sports so he plays...but I don't want it to become a source of him being ridiculed you
know. My protective parenting comming out I suppose. I just refuse to try to make him into something he's not or feed him full of the same crap I
hear from others that sports are their only real ticket in life these days...not just to go pro, or get a scholarship but that even smaller colleges
want athletics over academics. push push push...athletes at all costs...crazy.