When the ultimate purpose for controling people is to lead them to self destruction then encourageing no self control, morally, sexually, financially,
is a sure fire way to reach that end. Those who let their own selfish pride keep them blind to this fact, I find are those who are spiritually
deceived. Those who know it and promote it anyway, I find to be evil.
oh unholy hell Suzy...
I am totally reprimanded-chastized and ashamed...
not that this is a forumn for confession...and I am not evil...but trust me...was getting there...would be if I continued in the manner I have
been...and especially now if I continued while realizing what I have when I read those words...so then to help perpetuate by my own lifestyle what is
being promoted to CONTROL and sell the world on self destruction
well...I'd be no better than those who control by such promotion for that end
Having gone 6 years with seeminlgy prefected self control...and then suddenly...as I joke about my life taking a hiatus from my morals...I see that I
have been decieved...I was challenged by my greatest challenge yet in life...and I've failed...my hiatus has lasted a year...when I swore it would be
over...next week...next week...next month...
I triumphed for 6 years over the flesh-lived in this world but not of this world...it got to a point it was as if there were a pane of glass between
me and others/society...to where if I spoke to one who was in the world...I clearly felt removed from them, and their worldly worrries, woes, and
endeavors...schemes and joys in debacherous living
I was greatful to be now so minded on God, my family, my church and my extended family, and very little more...with a distate and repulsion for the
declining morals of society and repulsed by the media and entertainment industry...
but then it was like anything else...bit by bit -a little bit more became more tolerable to me... being in touch with my friend from some 18-19 years
ago...remembering him, the good times, the music scene, the music, the rage against conformity...and suddenly this new conformity I was living seemed
to become the enemy to me...
the conformity of the past...was to be resisted so as not to be CONTROLLED and owned by the world, and politics, and media, and entertainment...to
break free of that and search for truth, and be an individual etc...
but now...in breaking free of my conforming life...I am breaking free not of world control...but of SELF-control...
all the while being led to believe I was getting back to something of value, something existentially missing in my life...
it was just a little at first...and then my excesses grew...my desires and needs grew and were unfiulfilled-insatiable...
now mind you having been nealry puritan in my morals before hand...I did know better...but excused my behaviour...my new thought processes...and I was
going to return to my more exemplary moral thinking and living...soon...just as soon as I got some things out of my system...gained control
again...
just as soon as I could find some control...
and honestly I've been perplexed...I have not been on a drinking binge for a year or something mind you...but where I haven't drank in 6 years...I
have every couple of months this year had a few beer...and where I'd not looked at pornography-I indulged a few scenes...and so on...things I'd not
have done before
and my faith had not waivered in God or my beliefs and yet I lived contrary to what I should...and know it...but continue...and continue excusing
it
even sought help psychologically because I can't seem to break free of what seems to be CONTROLING me...but when all is said and done...
the biggest CONTROLING factor...
is the ABSENCE OF SELF CONTROL
...in my life anymore.
This is nearly realized by me occassionally, when I bother to reach out to God for guidance...but then I turn a blind eye...and its even alluded to by
my shrink...and now...blatantly spelled out before me by you Suzy...
even my new obsession with myself...my feelings, emotions, drives and sense of self.,..what kind of shape is my body in...how do my clothes fit...how
ATTRACTIVE am I to the opposite sex...etc...
buying clothes and products I wouldn't normally have bought or wasted money on...and some days I'd go WTF?
And feeling more consumer driven...all the while sometimes hating the way the media and entertainment make people feel they have to look certain
ways...the who advertising and reporting news to us targeting the lowest common denominator mindset would be offensive to me as it was in the
past...but now in a new way
... I've been having this love-hate relationship with the world for a year now...
and I HATE myself for being so weak...so aware and yet blind-being continually repulsed by the entertainment industry...but not so much for what they
perpetuate anymore...but because I hated feeling like I could not live up to what they were perpetuating and hating them for selling something
unobtainable to me
WTF is my problem?
and it's funny in searching of what controls me I find it is my own lack of self control indeed...and it is a TARGET-my self control has been
targeted...I knew I had been targeted, challenged and I failed...but I didn't exactly see it all for what it was...and I am begining to
and I am embarrassed for my hypocrisy and shamed...and yet even so...I sit here going...I'm going to change...definately...I'm seeing clearer now
and I'm going to change...
come Jan1st...
*sigh*