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Originally posted by deafence#
in my humble opinion, real love seeps through such insubstantial boudaries like colour or race. your arguement is true in some cases crusader, but even that situation proves that something draws different people together, for different reasons even.
would you then break it down into subcategories for preference? should red sox fans only date with other red sox fans? no, because that's a ridiculous concept.
sometimes it just happens, and if it works it works, if it doesnt it doesnt. as you know, this is life.
def.out
ps: the most common and important background we all share is that we are all HUMAN.
Originally posted by crusader
Well here's my two cents here. There will be a ton of trouble waiting for those who marry outside there race... Before you dismiss me, listen to this:
This is a true story, and it happens too often, for us to ignore,ther's a guy I know, who apparently had a relationship,with a white woman. He couldn't communicate on a whole with her, the culture was diffrent, she couldn't understand the phrases and terms we use, and everytime he had to explain it to her, and it was really frustrating. to cut a long story short, he had to end the relationship, for it was really demanding...... He ended up running back to a black woman.
so you see you need to share a similar background and culture for the relationship to work
Originally posted by crusader
Well, believing that you will not run into problems, is being naieve. To sum it all up, I will not date certain races , well that is one of my main reasons.. As i stressed earlier on, Dating is a conscious choice. So IF (a Big IF) which i will never do! I decide to go and approach, a white girl, i know it's a conscious choice, i deliberately choose to go and break the barrier... Which I don't want, to for several reasons historically, genetically, socially, preferences, attractiveness, etc. So there goes the argument of you cannot choose who you fall in love with..
Originally posted by crusader
Well, believing that you will not run into problems, is being naieve.
So there goes the argument of you cannot choose who you fall in love with..
Originally posted by crusader
Well, believing that you will not run into problems, is being naieve. To sum it all up, I will not date certain races , well that is one of my main reasons.. As i stressed earlier on, Dating is a conscious choice. So IF (a Big IF) which i will never do! I decide to go and approach, a white girl, i know it's a conscious choice, i deliberately choose to go and break the barrier... Which I don't want, to for several reasons historically, genetically, socially, preferences, attractiveness, etc. So there goes the argument of you cannot choose who you fall in love with..