Originally posted by crusader
True but then remember we are humans and not angels.
and that means we have hatred, for things we dislike..... On the issue of dating as I said before you cannot just fall in love..... it's a deliberate
action... You plan it that way....., So if someone chooses to marry outside his race, it's a conscious choice. Follish it will be, but a deliberate
So if I am dating within my race, that is not a conscious choice?
Dating anyone is a conscious choice.
I could not resist this one. Your statement truely shows a lack of experience. You don't plan on who you fall in love with! It just happens. The
dating part is a deliberate action. Who you fall in love with is not.
You DON'T "plan" falling in love.
I could go on 100 dates with someone and not fall in love. As much as I could try to "deliberately" fall in love, it is not going to happen with
someone I don't like or am not attracted to. Regardless of color!
And I have dated some real stinkers in and outside of my race!
But, if you are saying to avoid dating someone because of their race in order to avoid falling in love with them, then I see your logic. I don't
agree with it though. In fact, I vehemently oppose it. People should be with the person that makes them happy, regardless of heritage.
I simply date women I am attracted to, and if they happen to be of a different color, I'm still gonna date them........ and my parents/family/friends
don't give a damn as long as I and the person I am with are happy..... and they have proven that to me already.
And what are the people of mixed heritage supposed to do? Who should they date?
Or should they just not reproduce to atone for the sins of the race mixing parents?
Or should they just stick to other people off mixed heritage?
Again, you are entitled to your opinion and you can date whoever you want..... but I still feel life is too short to limit yourself to dating just
your own and that is where we agree to disagree.
[edit on 29-10-2005 by Facefirst]