posted on Oct, 10 2005 @ 09:23 PM
Originally posted by Uncle Joe
Mothers are always the best parent for a child...
I hate that attitude, I know alot of families that would be much happier without the mother!
I know that for a fact. Take my husband's brother. When his wife left him, she was abandoning their daughters too...she only wanted primary custody
because he filed for it. Fortunately the judge had some sense and my brother-in-law has primary custody. His two daughters are 8 and 13 and he and
their stepmother have to do damage control because their mother is a BAD influence--she encourages the older one to dress really slutty. I bet within
a few years my BIL will be a grandfather.
I also dont like womens assumptions that men are 'only after one thing'
From a woman's perspective it *seems* like it. But I know not all men are like that. There are some, though. Men are more ready to hit the hay;
women like more social interaction. That's a difference between men and women. The key is to seek balance.
Or the fact that if a guy has friends who are girls he is automatically gay for not wanting to sleep with them.
Now that's pretty stupid! Yet it's okay for girls to have guy friends and they're not called lesbians. I have friends who are male but I don't
want to sleep with them (besides my husband wouldn't be very happy with that!). I believe it's possible to be friends with the opposite sex, both
parties totally straight, and not sleep with each other.
My husband was a virgin (and so was I) when we got married. He was 26--nearly 27--and I was 20. He got called gay because he didn't sleep around.
And I know for a fact that he's not. Some people act like there's something wrong with a guy who's a virgin. Then those same people say a guy's
a pig when he scores big time. What the hey?