posted on Sep, 30 2005 @ 03:25 PM
Ok first things first, I've been in a similar situation, and tbh,be glad you didn't actually follow through with the nuptuals. You may want to
thank him(later on) for allowing you to observe, first hand exactly what a louse he was. Imagine 10 years down the road, you guys are married with
children and he pulled a stunt like that... Kind of puts things in perspective.
Look at it as a world of new possibilities, learn from this one, and if someone exhibits the similar traits as he desplayed, then you are wiser in the
long run.(No pun intended) Everyone deserves to be happy, and if there were things that bothered you about him, when you were together, imagine what
it would of been like, later on. Noone ever changes, and a leopard will always reveal their spots.
You deserve the best, no matter what your status, looks, gender, etc.. Everyone deserves to be happy, find solace in knowing this is your chance to