posted on Sep, 28 2005 @ 02:33 PM
Well, for starters, they smell great . . .
Oh, now I see the rest of your post.
Perhaps it's just the skanky trash you're chasing. That and the fact that maybe you feel inadequate, and are looking for a reason to "explain
away" the fact that you lack the drive to present yourself to women in a way that excites them.
But let's move on.
Some female primates are attracted to the alpha male, or the closest version they can get.
Others prefer the outsiders (i.e., artists, revolutionaries) on the hypothesis that they will one day challenge the status quo and become the
elite once they lead the vanguard on Bastille day.
I discovered that many of the excellent women want to see definite signals of interest from you. Not money as such, but a willingness to put effort
into chasing them.
You can get roses on sale for less than $12 in most large supermarkets, early in the week. That's enough to get ANY woman's attention. assuming
she likes you.
Most young men think that women should be "beyond all that dating BS." But I'm here to tell you that every woman wants to be valued. So
plan an evening. One that takes some work on your part. Like, find out what movies she likes, or whether she likes coffee or drinks.
A DATE is not sitting with her in a crowd, where you don't talk to each other. The real "date" starts when you leave the concert, and take her to
a quiet little cafe where everyone knows your name, and they have her favorite kind of pie. The two of you discuss your mutual interests, and then
you take her (to her) home before she's quite ready to end the evening.
THAT is a real date.
When you ask her out, you MUST NOT
-ask a general question (i.e., "would you think about going out with me, sometime?" or "do you like opera?") It is always easier to say no to a
general question than a specific one. And if you ask in general, her "no" is binding. As in no, she would NOT like to go out with you sometime.
-when she says no, keep on talking about it. Don't say, "maybe some other time." or "then maybe we could meet for coffee." If you get less
than a direct yes, then drop it for at least 14 days. Nothing is uglier than desperation. You should never reward a woman for being coquettish. You
SHOULD respect her wishes regardless.
-ask her out late in the week. If you ask her on Friday, you're insinuating that she probably doesn't have a date. And you're liable to get
rejected. It also says you're not putting much effort into it. If I tell you that "I have tickets to a museum you're interested in, can you go
with me on Sunday," it says I've given this a lot of effort.
Figure that, if you are average, you'll get about 4 "no's" for every yes to a dating requests. If you only get yes's, your not talking to enough
women--you're only hitting on the ones you think are a "shure thing."
Remember that the really hot chicks spend most weekends at home, or have boyfriends that mistreat them to some extent. In general, the incredible
ones are incredibly lonely. Most men are intimidated by beauty, and won't ask the prom queen out. When they get one, they are contemptuous of her,
because they settled for such a loser. -- this means that you can move right in, if you want.
I learned this from my roomate in college. His looks were sub-par, and his parents had cut him off financially. And that dude literally had women
fighting over him. He moved in his girlfriend (a model), about 6 weeks into the semester. Which would have been a problem except she had a ton of
hot friends, who couldn't get a date.