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Originally posted by falcon111
does anyone have any advice or encouragement about this? i hate seeing my girlfriend in pain like this but i am at a loss as to what i should do to help
Originally posted by orangetom1999
Also agree with one of the other posters. Men tend to try to fix things for women as if it is a automatic default setting...as if..this is what men were put here to do for women..not so. Wake up and grow up. Her baggage is not your baggage.
Yeah, dump her. Sounds harsh, but she's going to dump you anyway. Or she would the minute her Desperado rides back into town with a snoot full and a hankering for family time. Or the next Desperado. You're too nice. You're the transition guy. You're just there to hold her together until she decides she's ready to date jerks again.
Or I could be wrong. But I'm not.