posted on Aug, 27 2005 @ 12:55 PM
falcon111 got to say you have earned my respect for just making this post.
You are very understanding,
It sure is a hard place for you and her,
I can understand how she feels, but i think she needs to look at it a bit different,
See If the father if this child is not the kinda guy to really take much to do with his child then him being around her will only end up being
harmfull to the child, and in doing so letting the child down all the time,
To behonest you see more of a father to this little girl than he does,
Yes i can understand her guilt but she needs to see that you are there and taking the role of daddy, and im sure a better father,
Have you both approced the EX to see if he is interested in spending some time with the child?
Theres no real right answer here, and this is just my opinion, So go with what you feel,
maybe you and her need to sit down and really talk this out and see what solutions you can put on the table, maybe both working it out will be