I second everything nikelbee said. Please pay close attention to that advice.
So that's my life. I've had some experiences that have really affected me. Is it a mix of hauntings and alien encounters or are there
rational reasons for all of this?
Make no mistake, spirits of people who have died are real, and so are alien people, and either or both of them could be around you (invisibly) at
times through your life. These could be some of a number of rational reasons for some of what you describe.
From everything you describe and the way you describe it, even the parts that you are confused about, it is obvious to me that you are pretty
sensitive spiritually. That means that you have a keen awareness to things (life and spirit) around you. The awareness is your own natural ability of
your spirit- you have it on "high" sometimes, and it may be a little overactive, which is normal, but not the best way to go about exploring your
abilities or surroundings. You also have a normal imagination and it plays a part in what you assume about anything you may perceive around you,
spiritually as well as in your daily physical life.
Always be as honest and accurate about what you experience as you can be, no matter what. Be accepting and respectful of the beings you sense, just as
you expect from them. They probably sense that you sense them too, and may be leery of your reaction too. Choose wisely the other people you will tell
about these things. It's not a secret, but some might make you feel bad when what you need is support and acceptance. Well-meaning people may
misunderstand everything you say but still try pretty hard to help you anyway.
There is life and spirit everywhere for you (and all of us) to sense. Think of it like if you are playing a game with a lot of people you know, and
you're IT. You have your eyes closed, and you feel around your surroundings with your hands for anybody there, and have to guess who it is when you
find somebody. Those who want you to find them will be near to you. You don't need to search for them. If you start searching further and wider,
inevitably you will find somebody or a lot of somebodies, but do not bother those who are not obviously trying to get your attention for some
There are always a few beings who may be close to you at any time, within your sensation already, and most of them have always been around you and
always will be. Some of them are alive and some of them are not, but that doesn't matter. All people have a few beings around them and most do not
sense them, or may sense them once in a while without knowing what it is they feel. Even if you tend to be sensitive, you still can't always feel
them when they are there, but if they want you to, you will, don't worry.
From now on, just feel the space right around yourself for who is most personal to you. Pay attention to their unique sensations so you can recognize
them apart from all others. Expect to bump into various beings from time to time, but just realize how common life is and live normally with your
abilities, which will probably develop more as you mature.
If you are uncomfortable with these sensations at any time, just shut them off like you shut off the radio. You do not have to sense anything you
don't want to. It would be too difficult to feel everything all the time, and unnecessary. You will just feel things when you want to or need to.
If you have personal alien contact, your own alien contacts will make themselves known to you loud and clear, if and when it is time for that,
probably when you are stable in your adult life. If you don't have personal alien contact, they will never bother you.
[edit on 8/14/2005 by EarthSister]