posted on Aug, 10 2005 @ 12:23 AM
Thanks for all your replys guys...
and orange, i dont get what you mean by saying i should be smarter than this or more "with it" I didnt say anything really. i just asked for peoples
as far as my opinon on it, i think if a guy is in a commited relationship the he shouldnt look at porn if the person he is with is uncomfortable with
it. its just out of simple respect. and to me, if i were married i would consider it cheating if my husband did it. because if he needs sex im here
for that, and if im not in the mood, well he can masterbate, im cool with that, but not to pics of other woman. i can give him photos of me lol.
i think if you are in a commited relationship whether its porn or anything else, you have to be considerate of your partners feelings. and im old
fashinoated i suppose to where i think that if ive told my partner, that im not ok with it, and he says he wont do it, and then goes and does it
behind my back, hes cheating on me. because i consider lusting after another woman in that way, taking time out of your day to go and pic out a woman
that you like, buy the subscription to the website, and then look at it, when you have a wife or partner who considers that cheating, then it is.
if a guy wants to look at it, and the girl doesnt want him to he has every right to tell her that he doesnt want to change and break it off with her,
but he should never promise not to and do it behind her back. you cant have your cake and eat it too. no pun intended lol.
so thats my stance on it. it all comes down to honesty with me really.
my main question was, however not why they do it. but why would a guy promise not to, and then later on do it anyway,,,does that mean that he is
unsatisfied with his partners looks or their relationship? or does it have nothing to do with her at all.
that was the question