posted on Jul, 28 2005 @ 02:31 PM
Back in highschool, I had a crush on a certain girl, but never acted on it because I didn't really know her personally, and it would have been weird
to approach her. I talked to her once walking on the street while I was driving and she invited me to a party at her house (she was a little drunk,
and I never got to the party because it was 'full' inside apparently as soon as I got there) and I was hired a few times by her mother to work on
their house, but I'm sure she would have no idea who I am if I happened to run into her again.
The thing is, although I don't really know her, she was the kind of girl who would just make my heart drop into my stomach whenever I saw her. She
wasn't the best looking girl, not in the 'popular' clique, there was just something about her that I found irresistibly attractive, and the mystery
of not knowing why I was so into her just fueled the attraction. It's now been a couple years, and she has a boyfriend, a real *hole according to
some of my friends. I'm not just looking to take her away from that guy, I mean I don't even know her that well and have no idea if she'd like me,
but I just want the chance to meet her in a sober moment to see
why it is that I'm attracted to her more than any girl i've ever met. The
problem I have though, is that I don't know how I'm going to contact her, and if it's right to do this. I have her number because I worked for her
mother, but would it be weird to just call up some day and say "you have no idea who I am, but i had a crush on you in highschool...wanna meet?".
I wouldn't use those exact words of course
, but it just feels like it would be so awkward to call. This summer I've actually met a few of her
friends and we get along well, so I guess I could ask them to give her a heads up before I call, but that might make me seem unsure of myself
(which...I guess I kind of am!). So what would you guys do in this situation? The attraction is huge and I feel like I have to meet her, but I'm not
sure how to go about it, or whether or not I even should. For the women here, how would you feel on the side of the girl just getting a random call
one day?
[edit on 28-7-2005 by zhangmaster]