posted on Jul, 28 2005 @ 01:16 AM
Okay, so lately I've been having the problem with my current boyfriend that we have nothing to talk about anymore. Though our relationship is
relatively new (we've only been together for just over 3 months), it seems we've lost the newness and mystery of getting to know each other.
I'm not used to having this problem-- I generally tend to quickly get bored of being tied down to one guy, and my relationships usually only last a
couple of months, tops. So before the newness even has a chance to wear off, I've already dumped the guy.
Now don't get me wrong-- This one's different- He's not going anywhere. I actually LIKE this guy and care about whether we stay together. Usually
by three months I become antsy and want to get out, but I haven't felt the need to date around at all. I enjoy being with him and I don't want to
be with anyone else, but it's almost like we've become the old boring couple.
We're not exactly boring... In person, things are MORE than interesting-- but that's only because there are things you can do in person that
you just can't take care of otherwise. When we're on the phone, or conversations last only until the five minutes of "So how was your day?" is
over. And it's not that we already know everything about each other- I didn't even know his favorite color until yesterday...
I don't know what to do, but I know I don't want to lose him on account of our relationship being a total bore. Am I the reason our relationship is
boring? What can I do to fix this???