Originally posted by Esoteric Teacher
What's wrong with men?
FEAR is what is wrong with men. All negative actions stem from it.
Well, there's no reason why fear cannot work to your advantage now can it? Now Im sure my opposite wants me to fear her being killed and want me to
use that fear to save the day now wouldn't she?
Now, it is not THE biggest problem. But surely it is something that is a major
problem among males. That is, when the topic of women come to
Fear of the approach, fear of loss, fear of being cheated, blah blah blah
The list goes on. But fear in-itself is not 100% the reason that there is something..."wrong" with men.
Now by wrong you (or the collective whole) mean:
Now compatible with a majority of women perspective with how a man should be, then I suppose its a problem from that perspective.
But FEAR is a weapon that men respect. Or... 'alpha males' to paint the picture.
If it wasn't for fear, understanding our faults as men could become difficult to identify. More more than it already is. If a person becomes aware of
what they are afraid of, then that person becomes qualified to being able to overcome the issue. As a result, we now have base information as to how
we can adapt to solve the situation.
Now let's take FEAR out of men.
How would you (women
) feel like if your man didn't fear losing you? Great right! One less thing to worry about. Up until you break up and wish
you want him back!
That fear could mean the one opportunity to bridge a level of understanding that you originally couldn't achieve.
Im taking this in account of my good friend who wishes she never let go of the man she loved. Because it's too late for her now to go back.
Now my point is...
There is no such thing as a problem with men. Or even women.
That's right guys and gals, it's all in your heads.
Life is a sandbox and people make structures and play games with it all the time. Its how you play it that makes the game. But it's your attitude
that defines the experience.
Now, i'm sure theres proof that there's a problem with men. But it's a problem only if you point out what it's relating to. Because saying that
theres something wrong with men (women too!!) doesn't help make things more understandable.
[edit on 15-9-2009 by GambitVII]