posted on Jul, 20 2005 @ 10:18 AM
Having just left a ghetto community school in South London( finished yr 11), I've seen things like this from the outside several times.
The "Rudeboys" go round acting like pricks all the time, yet somehow are the most popular among guys and girls. Somehow the biggest, most violent
agressive, and often criminal pricks are always the ones with the most girls/longest relationships.
I have also from observation noticd that there is are ways to beat the rudeboys: Show resistance. Most of the time even the slightest resistance will
make a rudeboy give up, particularly the lone rudeboy. Their strength is in numbers, alone they can be easily dealt with.
We can only hope Emzy will listen to your persuasion and get out of the rut of denial she must be in that he is still a good guy.
Then I would advise Emzy, with you as backup probably, shows consistant resistance to Jakes threats and violence. She should not be afraid to even
slap him if it has to come to it.
Its the only way, otherwise these guys just think everyone will go round doing everything they say and just putting up with their behaviour.
Stories like this always make me sad. Nice girl ends up with scumbag guy, turns into one of his hoes, has no respect from anyone,is treated badly by
him, yet still stays with him. Emzy has my sympathy, as do you.
BTW, where in britain is this Oni?