Why doesn't God talk to us now?

its always 'our' fault if we cant hear god. or its 'our' fault that we went to a faith healing rally and didn't get cured... its always 'our' fault...never gods, or jesus, or the fact the religion might be a fraud. if you cant hear god or be cured by him its 'your' fault. just like was 'our' fault for the asian tsunami, god was punishing us. its always 'our' fault. i dont get that, we're blaming ourselves for stuff we needn't do. why blame yourself or let others blame you for not being cured, or not being able to hear god...

perhaps i cant hear god because god isnt real, he's not there...its fake etc...oh but you would never have that...because its all my fault i cant hear god...