posted on May, 30 2005 @ 09:33 PM
Let me take a moment to explain why a stripper is an evil thing to inflict on a 16 year old. It is a psychological truth that human sexuality is
primarily a learned experience. Humans learn arrousal from their experiences and the interpretation of those experiences. What is exciting for one
person will not be for another. This is not primarily due to genetics but rather to conditioning in the person.
It is also a statistical fact that those who consider themselves to be most sexually fufilled are those who have been partnered to one person in a
lasting monogomous relationship. This is not to say that these people have experienced all the variety of sexual experience of others but simply to
say that they consider themselved to be sexually fufilled.
The reason for this is that human are designed to bond to each other and to imprint sexually upon a single partner, learning the definitions of what
sexuality can be from that partnership. When this design is followed, sexual fufillment is a natural because the definition of fufillment is outlined
by the ones engaged in the sexual activity.
One of the problems with sexuality in the modern world is that society has come started to take on the role that only a marriage partner should have.
society has started to define what sexuality should look like. Often, as in the case of a stripper, that definition is skewed so far from the reality
of human relations that it creates an unfufillable desire in a person. This desire can become an addiction that seeks fufillment in ever more base
and shameful displays of perversion until the sexually addicted person slips into harmful sexual thrills such as S+M or pedophilia. Exposing
teenagers to a false impression of what women are like sexually is setting them up for disappointment in their future relationships. It lays a
foundation for fornication and adultery that will lessen their chances of living a sexually fufilled life.
Bottom line is that sexual purity is not just the soap box sermon of the sexually repressed. It is for all those who want to have the best chance to
be sexually fufilled when they form a lasting monogomous relationship.
The old saying goes you can only make a first impression once. In the world of sexual imprints how sad it is for a group of young teens to have their
first sexual impression of feminity be a stripper who only teases, never delivers, and is gone as quickly as she came. To inflict that upon those who
attend a 16th Bday party is just plain wrong. It becomes criminal if you inflict it upon the children of others whose written permission you have not
I hope those involved serve a few weeks behind bars as an example.