hi when a girl asks me to dance i just decline cause the girls that dance with me can be very sexual so i just decline and they move onto the "fun loving guy"

Question is can i overcome this fear, is it a fear?

yer its a fear, basically just go with the flow
and if she is dancin close make it so you are holding her
but not squeezing her.
and if she is dirty dancing then dance so you are dirrty dancing as well
if you dont then she will think you just wanted to get close and
not have a laugh.

just chill and dance!

oni x x

Yeah.... don't be tense... stay loose. Just show off your dance moves. hehe Just try to stay calm and what wrongs with being sexual?

to true, a girl/boy wouldnt wanna dance dirty dancing
if they didnt want to be sexual!

keep it kule! dont get worried because she is most ,likely
scared and wants you to dance and enjoy the way she moves!

oni x x

thanks for that now all i need is a bit of liquid confidense

lol only hae a few drinks because if she is dancing close and you are wobbing then that will be a bad mix! lol

she will get peed off!

hopefully this information helped!

oni x x

ps.: have a good time dancing!

imo, feel free to get your freak dance on anytime anywhere!




alcohol optional

You can overcome this fear. Besically as I see it. Most of the time the guy does nothing anyways. They usually just stand there why girls to most of the work. But you should dance and have a good time. Its quit fun sometimes.