posted on May, 19 2005 @ 05:38 PM
wow sounds like alot is going on there,
First i would say this is part of growing and changing, shes at trhat age where she is unsure who she is and just begining to find out, to do this she
needs to be alone,
Now saying that, she should not be making you hang on.
I would say to you, if you love her then dont stand there on the end of a string, You need to walk away and find youself, its more likely that if you
step away she will need realise that she needs you,
but its not fair for you to wait while she makes up her mind,
Yes it hurts, it will hurt to walk away but it will hurt you more in the long run if you stay.
Get out and do some other things meet some other people,
Geeze i really hope things work out for you, i know the pain you feel right now is so intense, please if you feel you need to chat u2u me.
Good luck, and remember keep busy