Few thoughts for you Val. And thanks for the little refresher there. Had to clean my U2U box out and lost a lot of our conversation. I remember well
1. Synchronicity- Maybe maybe not. Here is what I believe to be true in the world of hauntings. If this is an active haunting (I will get into your
specific situation momentarily) then the active spirits know when you are talking about them. This can make them act more, as they know that, at that
exact time, your mind is thinking (at least in some capacity) about them. The other point to keep in mind (with my research anyway) is that while they
may be active constantly, you may only notice it when you talk about it as when you talk about it, you are more focused on it.
I explain this like this. In my home, I KNOW I have at lease 7 different types of entities. (really
) Now, I have a small number (approximately 5
maybe a few more) that are ACTIVE. I have some residual, poltergeist and others, but, the actives are my focus here. Now, I know they are active all
of the time. But, unless they REALLY try to get my attention, I usually just shrug it off, or better yet, don't even catch on to it. UNLESS I TALK
ABOUT THEM. As I talk about them, my mind focuses more and them for a short time, and I notice EVERYTHING. So, in a way, even though the haunting is
real, much of what we notice is based on our own psychological involvement at that moment. Are we insane? No, we are just paying less attention when
we are not actively involved with them.
2. Multiple Haunting Aspects (you mentioned something like this earlier) - I believe in your situation (much like mine) you have multiple levels of a
haunt. On one level (and for the most part in your home) it is residual. Things playing back over and over.
You have at least one ACTIVE haunting aspect, which is the phone calls for Brown. I say this because, as stated above, they happen when your mind is
more aware. They are calling a number asking for a dead person that could never possily have had a number even reslembling you number.
I believe you also have what is refered to as a patroling spirit. These are, in essence, both drawn and attracted by the more powerful ones of which
in turn are then used by the stronger ones in creating a more psychical density, resulting in more evident occurrences. Think of the spirit world in a
food chain situation. The patroling spirit would be a a food source for the active spirit.
You may have even more, but, without inviting a local parapsychologist or Paranormal Investigator to you home, it would be impossible to determine.
Please let me know if there is anything I can help with. Also, if you happen to get 35mm or digital photos of anything you consider strange, you can
email them to me at
and I will gladly look them over for you.
And val, I dunno if you have visited my site yet with a few of my photos, but you can click my web link at the bottom of my post and it will take you
For now, take care.