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Originally posted by sarahc
I have been with my husband since Sept. 2002. He's a "mature student" 200 miles away and so far we have only really lived together on the school holidays and we generally see each other every 2 weeks for about 4 days.
The time has come where we will be together, permanently! When we've lived together it hasn't been a bed of roses. I believe (and please disagree with me if you think i am wrong), even though i don't work (i have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship) i'd still appreciate help around the house and my man does not think he should, especially when hes been to work.
He sits in one position, with remote control in hand and doesn't move . He HATES DIY (which only leaves me to do it since i can't afford someone to do it for me).
Since i have lived alone, i really enjoy it and i don't think i could live with him full time, so much so, i am trying to get him to work away somewhere!
I love him dearly, but living in the same house 24/7 i think will destroy us...
Any ideas, i have until the 2nd of June..........