Originally posted by The Drifter
I've posted something similar to this before.
I'm a spiritual person as most on here are but obviously I'm a city dweller... a land lubber... an urbanite... I'm sitting here working for family in a financial service office in a suit.. slightly uncomfortable but still here.
But theres this thing with conflict, being 'empathetic' and working in the financial sector seems odd, maybe I've yet to adapt but does anyone else feel the same way? The odd feeling that a desert island with some fruit trees and amazonian women would 'suit' better, if you get my drift.
Damn vampiric society.
I'd go into a bit more detail but to sum it up its like being a greenpeace activist and having to work on anoil rig.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I'm in the finance world too. It's very popular in the Northeast U.S. from what I understand. For a while I saw where I work to be a direct conflict for my beliefs, however there is good news. I've gone through a lot of talking with the big G and found there are very specific roles I'm supposed to provide. I'll share them and take anything you like if it fits:
Swim upstream - If people are making amoral desicions, advice them not to do it. A lot of times we're not in the power position to make them do the moral thing, but we need to help that voice in the back of their mind that says, "this isn't the right thing to do".
Be there - You'd be surprised how many people will confide in you when you keep your ears open and your mouth shut (to others). Listen, and when asked, council and advise. A lot of people feel the same way you do, going through the same challenges, and need help. Be there for them when they need you.
Hold steady - Hopefully the company you work for has a core set of values and principles that made the place an attractive place to work. If you have family there, treat them as family. In fact, treat all people like brothers and sisters even though they seem lost sometimes. Your company is your workday family.
Find your niche - This is ultra-tricky, I'll be candid. Sometimes it may take years, but work towards being constantly successful and get into a position that makes you feel good going to work everyday. Then, you'll be able to use your good decision-making skills for the benefit of others. Remember the impact on everyone, not just the company. You have customers, shareholders, and co-workers. Never step on the 'little guy' especially if they're taking out the trash or making your lunch. They have a lot of heart to do these things, a family, and a future too. Support everyone in their roles.
Create the win-win scenario - A lot of people feel they have to out-compete and shaft other people. Don't fall into this trap, it is a lie. Take care of others first, then yourself. A leader is someone who gets lifted to the top by helping others climb first.
Channel your money - You've been blessed with a good paying job. Where is your money going? To a shiny new car? A nice big house? Jewelry for the family? C'mon. Remember those people who have nothing in the world. The church probably has active charities to give time and/or money to. Sponsor a child www.christianchildrensfund.org... , give people human rights to live in peace www.amnesty.org... , or pick one of a boatload of organizations working to repair the tsunami disaster www.networkforgood.org... . Your power is in your finances. Give regularly and your return will be never-ending.
I hope something here helps and would be very interested in hearing an update.
Pray, train, study.
God bless.
[edit on 21-4-2005 by saint4God]
I am an ecoligically very aware activist ( not green peace) and I worked on an oilrigg in the North Sea!!!! It WAS a paradox, but
I sold my ethics for cool cash. (sorry) 
but we gotta try. 
