Am I an Indigo Child?, page 5
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reply posted on 30-3-2005 @ 03:38 PM by LadyV
They come into the world with a feeling of royalty (and often act like it)

They have a feeling of "deserving to be here," and are surprised when others don't share that.

Self-worth is not a big issue. They often tell the parents "who they are."
They have difficulty with absolute authority (authority without explanation or choice).

They simply will not do certain things; for example, waiting in line is difficult for them.

They get frustrated with systems that are ritually oriented and don't require creative thought.

They often see better ways of doing things, both at home and in school, which makes them seem like "system busters" (nonconforming to any system).

They seem antisocial unless they are with their own kind. If there are no others of like consciousness around them, they often turn inward, feeling like no other human understands them. School is often extremely difficult for them socially.

They will not respond to "guilt" discipline ("Wait till your father gets home and finds out what you did").

They are not shy in letting you know what they need.


Your kidding me right? Your trying to tell me that this is just now appearing in Children being born "today"!? You can't possibly believe this!? So no one before now has these signs hu? I'd say half of America has them from all age groups, and from all eras...give us a break!

Especially these:

They get frustrated with systems that are ritually oriented and don't require creative thought.

They often see better ways of doing things, both at home and in school, which makes them seem like "system busters" (nonconforming to any system).

They seem antisocial unless they are with their own kind. If there are no others of like consciousness around them, they often turn inward, feeling like no other human understands them. School is often extremely difficult for them socially.

They will not respond to "guilt" discipline ("Wait till your father gets home and finds out what you did").


Do know how many people this fits from all eras and ages...OMG I can't believe it!


[edit on 3/30/2005 by LadyV]


reply posted on 30-3-2005 @ 03:42 PM by phreak_of_nature
Originally posted by Indigo_Child
It's driven by the need to replace previous labels such as "loser"


There's two types of labels in that same class as "loser". Labels that hurt, and labels that uplift. If peers label you loser it can be painful, if you let it. It doesn't have to be.

Not to long ago there was a label that was applied to people of color. That label was meant to hurt. But through the couragous works of some people that label was de-mystifed. The verbal slap that was associated with it is gone.

It is possible to take the power out of a label, and make it meaningless. The most effective way is to first off not let it get to you. Secondly, embrace the label in the face of those who seek to shun you with it. Once they have lost the power to hurt you with a label, it no longer becomes neccesary. No labels will be.

It is also possible to attempt to imply that a label is far more positive then it is. You can apply a meaningless label who's intent is to uplift. The intent is fine, but the actual effect is to seperate, and justify the seperation. Once reality sets in, this label really has the same effect as the ones that are blatantly hurtful.

I've been called geek, nerd, loser, spaz, dork, a**hole, and it doesn't bother me. I have traits and tendencies that match all of those labels. So I let people use them. Doesn't make me one, and it doesn't hurt me, because I know.
But if someone were to call me messiah, or jehovah, well, that would make me feel great. I'd get a big ol' swelled head, and I'd start acting like one.

Then reality would settle in, and the deceit that was played on me would hurt more then if I'd just been called an a**hole in the first place.
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