posted on Mar, 28 2005 @ 01:12 AM
Ok. At frist, I just thought he was depressed. But, you guys tell me:
Well we have been together for about 2 going on 3 years now. We both are 22 years old. We used to have such fun together, now when we go out is not
really the same.
I'd say about 6 or so months ago, he said hanging out with me was "emotionally draining". You could tell the difference. For example when he went
out with me, he seemed tired and looked like he didn't want to be there. Once we get back to his house and we are around his friends, he's lively
and funny again.
Now, he seems to not want to be around anyone. The best way he can explain it is by saying, "I don't feel like entertaining anyone" To
him, entertaining means basically interacting with anyone. Going to the movies with me or anyone else or just even watching TV with his roomie is
considered "entertaining" someone. He recently took up bowling and he plays by him self rather than joining a league.
Well, at frist, I just thought he wasn't into me. I asked him if he wanted to break up and of course he said no. We did this before and he called
me the next day asking to get back together. He says that he wants to be with me and doesn't want to see me with anyone else. But yet, he doesn't
even want to do anything with me. Very selfish in my opinion.
Then, I just thought he was working too much. He works 11 days straight and gets every other Fri, Sat, Sun off.
I haven't even seen him in weeks. But he does call often-several times a day sometimes. For example, today he was off and we spoke about 10 times.
A lot of my friends think I should just break up with him and I'm starting to agree. But, it just tugs at my conscience, since I think he is going
through something and he might really need me by his side. He is slowly opening up to me, though. But not enough for me to be able to get through to
the root of the problem. Also, he refuses go talk to a professional or his Pastor.
What do you guys think?