A Shout Out to the Men of ATS & Request for Advise

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

So as always, the ultimate source of your problems emanates from within.

None of it is from outside yourself.

Do you recognize this is a valid principle of how You exist???

In a sense yes. I'm torn between wanting to be polite and wanting the uncomfortable inuendo to cease.

a reply to: Quantumgamer1776

then theyll be whatever religion their target is! lol.

people need to learn to be weary of people that are always aggreeing with them

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

So as always, the ultimate source of your problems emanates from within.

None of it is from outside yourself.

Do you recognize this is a valid principle of how You exist???

In a sense yes. I'm torn between wanting to be polite and wanting the uncomfortable inuendo to cease.

Just slap em.
Express the Truth!

Don't play along.

Stand up immediately and lay out your boundaries.

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

All these ppl will likely kiss your butt and take your side because you're a woman.

Doesnt that bother you?
How do you get Truth from anyone when it's all a pack of lies to be sweet to you?

You can't possibly want to live a Lie.

Im the one that actually takes your side, the true you deep within that no one but you knows.

The surface you that everyone judges clouds their view.

I seriously have no idea what you're on about, or how you feel you have some deep insight into me that all others on this site can't discern. All a pack of lies from everyone else to be sweet to me and kiss my butt b/c I'm a woman? Cynical much?

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

So as always, the ultimate source of your problems emanates from within.

None of it is from outside yourself.

Do you recognize this is a valid principle of how You exist???

In a sense yes. I'm torn between wanting to be polite and wanting the uncomfortable inuendo to cease.

Playing along to be nice is actually wrong. It's immoral. It's a LIE that strings ppl along.

How is it nice to get ppls hopes up with lies then eventually you gotta crush their mislead hearts...

The only way to be nice and good is tell the truth no matter how harsh. Lies lead to ruin.

a reply to: muzzleflash

Cool next time I get a creepy message I'll pull out my pistol and shoot my phone, haha!

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

All these ppl will likely kiss your butt and take your side because you're a woman.

Doesnt that bother you?
How do you get Truth from anyone when it's all a pack of lies to be sweet to you?

You can't possibly want to live a Lie.

Im the one that actually takes your side, the true you deep within that no one but you knows.

The surface you that everyone judges clouds their view.

I seriously have no idea what you're on about, or how you feel you have some deep insight into me that all others on this site can't discern. All a pack of lies from everyone else to be sweet to me and kiss my butt b/c I'm a woman? Cynical much?

It's not personal.

It's about the principle of the matter.

How can you be perturbed by me when I'm willing to tell you the truth that few will?

I'm doing a favor for zero net return.

originally posted by: new_here
a reply to: muzzleflash

Cool next time I get a creepy message I'll pull out my pistol and shoot my phone, haha!

Or you can tell them to STOP?
Then block them?

Shooting the phone will technically work but its more expensive...

originally posted by: muzzleflash

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

So as always, the ultimate source of your problems emanates from within.

None of it is from outside yourself.

Do you recognize this is a valid principle of how You exist???

In a sense yes. I'm torn between wanting to be polite and wanting the uncomfortable inuendo to cease.

Playing along to be nice is actually wrong. It's immoral. It's a LIE that strings ppl along.

How is it nice to get ppls hopes up with lies then eventually you gotta crush their mislead hearts...

The only way to be nice and good is tell the truth no matter how harsh. Lies lead to ruin.

I've mislead no one. I've been politely forthright and made my wish to only play the game known. Tired of having to deal with unsolicited come-ons. Question was: Anything I can do to prevent it up front? You seem to think I'm asking for it or stringing people along. Um. Resounding NO.

originally posted by: infolurker
a reply to: new_here

Be careful. One of the youtube creators I follow just had a problem with stalkers. This video will wake you up.

Is it just me?...or does anyone else think the chick in this video is kinda hawt?

a reply to: new_here

See you're the problem here that's bothering you.

You're projecting it onto others.

You'll be fake "nice" misleading them into escalation. Then when it escalates you double down and play the victim and accuse the NORMAL AVERAGE GUY of harassment/stalking???

I cant stand it.
It's so unethical and self centered and selfish. You have No cares for anyone else or their position. There's no sympathy or empathy in your views.

You're like "but I'm tryin to be nice" and I'm like wow you're making criminal accusations against people you lied to and manipulated to comfort your ego ??

No wonder it's a disaster for you...

Read my posts 100 times. Step out of the box that takes all this personal and LISTEN FOR A MOMENT.

originally posted by: IAMTAT

originally posted by: infolurker
a reply to: new_here

Be careful. One of the youtube creators I follow just had a problem with stalkers. This video will wake you up.

Is it just me?...or does anyone else think the chick in this video is kinda hawt?

No, I think her stalker does, lol.

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: IAMTAT

originally posted by: infolurker
a reply to: new_here

Be careful. One of the youtube creators I follow just had a problem with stalkers. This video will wake you up.

Is it just me?...or does anyone else think the chick in this video is kinda hawt?

No, I think her stalker does, lol.

Good...you have a sense of humor.
My advice to you regarding your OP...is to USE THAT!

Humor can diffuse an uncomfortable situation faster than anything.

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: muzzleflash

originally posted by: new_here

originally posted by: muzzleflash
a reply to: new_here

So as always, the ultimate source of your problems emanates from within.

None of it is from outside yourself.

Do you recognize this is a valid principle of how You exist???

In a sense yes. I'm torn between wanting to be polite and wanting the uncomfortable inuendo to cease.

Playing along to be nice is actually wrong. It's immoral. It's a LIE that strings ppl along.

How is it nice to get ppls hopes up with lies then eventually you gotta crush their mislead hearts...

The only way to be nice and good is tell the truth no matter how harsh. Lies lead to ruin.

I've mislead no one. I've been politely forthright and made my wish to only play the game known. Tired of having to deal with unsolicited come-ons. Question was: Anything I can do to prevent it up front? You seem to think I'm asking for it or stringing people along. Um. Resounding NO.

Now you're lying to me?
How can you be a woman with balls that big??

How can you live like this?
You're gonna go lie to yourself now...

Men hit on women every day I'm sorry but it isn't criminal you're just a pretentious selfish person that's offended by normal every day reality.

You dont like it? Become a nun and hide in a convent or something. Avoid any interaction you might get hit on omg....

a reply to: IAMTAT

Theres nothing humorous about a conceited feminist criminalizing average behavior from guys.

This is reality folks.
Hit em with the truth and they squirm and reject it.

No one's willing to look in the mirror.

Oh well.

So guys....

Y'all gonna sit there all silent?

Typical fake guy lying behavior. You're hardwired to take a womans side even if its to LIE to them yourself and everyone.

Cowards.
Y'all wouldn't know how to be honest with a woman even if it meant you'd get laid. Pathetic.

a reply to: new_here

I'd like to know, do you have any advice for me? Anything I can say up front that is to the point but not rude (in case man in question is not one of THOSE men.) Imagine I'm your sister, or mom, or any other female in your life you care about... what advice would you give?

Just do what I do,tell everyone you don't and won't date people you met online....if people get weird, tell them they broke the deal and the agreement and be done with them.

I always try to be a positive experience for people online, if they break the deal, have no shame and keep moving.
There is a lot of weird internet creeps, don't be one of them and you win.

a reply to: muzzleflash

Jesus Muzzy, on what side of who's bed did you wake up today?

a reply to: new_here
Just be yourself. You don't want to be with anyone you can't connect with. Just do it. Sometimes you fail sometimes you win. All of this is up to you, and how you want to live.
Nobody wants to be with anyone who is a liar, and a faker.