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So what is forgiveness, really?
Each night, these events play over in my mind & I find my body reacting with tenseness, anger & fear. Is this just the Way Things Are?
originally posted by: miri2019
For as long as the wrong-doer doesn't care about the pain that he/she has caused and is prone to do it again, then I don't think that our forgiveness has any meaning or value and probably deep inside we don't mean it.
originally posted by: miri2019
a reply to: kiro8lak
This is a difficult subject, but the way I see it, is that we forgive after our adversary has shown repentance for whatever wrong he/she did to us.
For as long as the wrong-doer doesn't care about the pain that he/she has caused and is prone to do it again, then I don't think that our forgiveness has any meaning or value and probably deep inside we don't mean it. Also we run the risk the other party might take our forgiveness as a sign of weakness and this is a tactical error in my opinion.
Its not about what the wrong doer does or wether or not they'll do it again or wether or not its seen as a sign of weakness which by the way to the unenlightened it always is a sign of weakness its about the individual themself - the fact that you consider it a tactical error is infact indicative of a mind always in competition at a bare minimum hence your comment about having a adversary.
Natural born forgivers who are not corrupted by circumstances and thus not returned to satans fold DO NOT have adversaries or a need for tactical evaluations which the unenlightened simply cannot fathom.